2007-11-14 11:41:08 · 20 answers · asked by Daniel T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Been there, done that. Not only has he physically disconnected, he's emotionally disconnected. You need to decide whether being in a sexless relationship is something you want. Its not something I wanted, its not natural or normal for two people in love to not be intimate. However, every person's situation is different, so if you BOTH want to work at it then you need to sit down and have a serious heart to heart and figure out why there was such a disconnect in the first place.
2007-11-14 11:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by mrsgiggles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him and see what the problem is. There is no way I'm going to go 2 days without sex with my husband and not know what's wrong. Even during my monthly I use my mouth to keep keep the action in my home. You got to please your man to make him want more hot sex. Spice things up for him. Married 3 years, 27 years old, husband 26
2007-11-14 19:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have been married for 15 years. My wife never kisses me, or makes me feel wanted. I know how it feels. Get away from the house and get away with just him and talk about these things. Tell him you need to know what is going on in his life that he does not want to have sex. Try see it helps. God bless you.
2007-11-14 20:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a sitter for the kids (if you have any). Set the mood. Make sure it's not on a day right after work when he's exhausted. Make it after a nice rested night.......but set the mood. A picnic on the living room floor in a nightie. Whatever floats your boat. Sometimes relationships get stale .......freshen it up! Relationships take work. Its not all automatic pilot.
2007-11-14 19:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find out why. seating here and asking what to do will solve nothing. When facing a problem you need to find the source of that problem and act accordingly.
There could be so many reasons to why he isn't having sex with you that it would be foolish to even assume anyone knows the answer.
Besides ... why have you waited a year to be concerned?
get on it and find out what is going on.
2007-11-14 19:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by caliguy_30 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it kinda hard when you don't say very much of your relationship with him. But maybe he is seeing someone else and he doesn't want to make love to you, maybe he just doesn't want to, or maybe he has ED and can't come out and tell you. But I woudl like to help you more but without knowing what's going on I hope it changes for you soon. But want to really chat more about ti just IM me anytime and we can chat more about this.
2007-11-14 19:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry darling but I think youre husband is seeing someone else or he could be playing with himself somewhere...
2007-11-14 19:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a medical condition or something? Have you asked him why? You did not give enough information for me to give you my opinion on what to do. Sorry.
2007-11-14 19:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mmmmm................
Fix yourself up real cute.
Is he cheating? Check his email and computer and cell phone. Maybe he's doing porn.
Is he having physical problems? Maybe he should go to the doctor.
Ask him, if you haven't already.
Joy to you!!
2007-11-14 19:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Why? you've got to give more details. I cant give advise on just that
2007-11-14 19:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋