I feel so helpless. They live in Germany and I am currently located in the states. How best can I support her when she is not able to talk about it yet and I cant be there for her? She found out he was having an affair when she was 6 months pregnant and didn't tell anyone even her family. They went to counseling for a 9 months and she just found out he had continued the affair and now its over for good. She is devastated.
2007-11-14 11:33:52 · 17 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Help her pay for the divorce!
2007-11-14 12:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can only give her moral support and a shoulder to cry on. Choosing sides at this time is not good for her because she is in that world wind where she still have feelings while feeling stepped on at the same time. Advise her to get some personal counseling to help her pick up her life and move on. This chapter is over in her life.
2007-11-14 11:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Los 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 06:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to come home with the baby and be surrounded by loving family and friends. People that genuinely love you will be with you through the worst. There's no way she can confront her current situation with emotional support from a distance.
2007-11-14 11:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by mrsgiggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to things like this, you don't always have to say anything, just being there to listen is enough. Just let her know you're there for her whenever she needs you. I know you wish you could do something to stop all of this from happening to her, but all you can do is be the best friend you can be. Checking up on her, making sure she is ok and making sure she eats is very important.
2007-11-14 11:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know it's a cliché, but "just be there". Communicate by e-mail or instant messenger. Let her take the lead in sharing the details, but do let her know that you care for her and don't mind being a shoulder to cry on.
2007-11-14 11:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is offer your support. What she is going through is soooo hard and if you let her know that you will be there for her anytime she needs to talk and just let it out. Give her my best, I have been there.
2007-11-14 11:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by jessiej83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all you can really do is be there for her when she needs to talk or a friend to lean on. just be ready for when she talks about it.....be supportive and tell her that she can make it on her own and that if she needs a friend (day or night) to call you. let her know that she is not alone and that you do care...that's about all you can do.
2007-11-14 11:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her let her know u are there for her whenever she needs u. ofcourse she is devastated and will need a good non judge mental friend in which to tell her troubles to.
2007-11-14 11:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love her as a friend. At this time she really needs friends and family.
2007-11-14 12:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to wake up and so should you. All men cheat. Sorry that's life deal with it. If he treats her well keep him because the next guy might beat her and treat her like garbage and still cheat on her. Welcome to reality.
2007-11-14 13:02:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋