It was for her humungous rack…granted, since then I’ve fallen in love with her mind and soul, but should I leave out the rack part?
2007-11-14 10:58:46 · 78 answers · asked by ? 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
nothing wrong though with telling her that her hottness attracked you to her first, lust comes then real love.
2007-11-14 11:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As far as having to beg for thing you find sexy, it sounds to me as though you do a lot of demanding but don't try and encourage your wife by treating her to something sexy yourself. What would happen if you treated her to a romantic dinner or performed a strip tease or an erotic massage. Something she would like. She might be more inclined to do something special for you if you did. As far as the lingerie, do you control the money in the marriage? If you do, she won't have much of her own to be throwing around on frivolous things when the economy is bad and there are bills to pay. If you really, really want her to wear a new set of lingerie then you should buy her a set. As far as her hair goes, it's not the end of the world. Hair grows back. Granted, she has the right to wear HER hair the way SHE wants to, but it sounds like she didn't know how much it would bother you. Let her know, gently, that you preferred it longer and maybe she'll consider growing it. Basically, this is a two way street here. You've got a lot of expectations for someone who's not doing anything for her either. You need to talk about your concerns and if you think it will help, get some marriage counseling. If you want help on this issue, you need to help her help you.
2016-03-14 13:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love to be comlimented! And positives about our body are most appreciated.Especially when there is so much pressure by society on women to look good. (as i watch project runway in los angeles lol)
However, i think you should also mention the first thing about HER the PERSON not only HER the body that you liked. Here's how it might go:
Her (goddess wife): Why were you attracted to me at first?.:
You (adoring husband)Was as i attracted to you? Phiscally because of your breasts. But i fell in love with you BECAUSE OF. ....(insert a reason about her that makes you love her)/.
This way you are being honest and give a compliment. , but also being sensitive that she doesnt want to think that her looks are all you care about
2007-11-14 13:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by shea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me. I would tell her that at first you were attracted because she was drop dead sexy...you might include the "rack" as part of that, but no, don't make it the only thing. I think she will enjoy knowing that you thought (and think) she's sexy.
You will of course then say, once you got to know her you STAYED with her because of who she is
2007-11-14 11:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We often fall in love for something in a person like you did for your wife but gradually you come to realise there are numerous small things which makes you realise that you made the best decision in your life.
One should tell the person how much he loves him in those small ways and when ever together.
I am sure in this way the relationship gets stronger.
Take care
2007-11-14 13:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Raj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am sure that by this time that rack is now a sloppy saggy mess, so I would leave that out, you Will only make her feel bad. Large boobs Never stay nice very long, so don't bring that up. Just say the other stuff.
I am laughing because I got a thumbs down!!! Probably from someone with Saggy ****!!! LOL!!!!!!
2007-11-14 11:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rain 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you should tell the truth. If you can honestly look her in the eye and tell her she's the whole package then why should she mind what attracted you in the first place? I hope you're both secure and happy.
2007-11-14 11:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
no,she's your wife now so tell her the real.every woman with a huge rack knows it attracts almost any man.now your past the outer and fell in LOVE with the inner which is more meaningful.be real with her,she'll respect that
2007-11-14 11:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her! My boyfriend was attracted to me for the same reason and made sure I knew that! But he didn't just say...because of your huge rack...he also added in other elements in, like i'm a good converser and we enjoy the same music...if she is married to you i'm sure she has a little hint you like those big boobies!
2007-11-14 11:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? I mean if, you didn't know each other at the start and you just walked up and said HI, can she really think "Oh he new I had a good soul even though he had never met me." No, I think I would laugh if my bf told me "Well, at first it was your big boobs, but I stayed for your big heart."
2007-11-14 11:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope. Tell her the truth...then add that now you love her for all her other virtues! I'm sure she can handle the truth...she might even find it funny!
2007-11-14 11:02:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋