had a 1 night stand?
Wondering about both sides tho.. were you the one using the other person? Were you the one who got used? Was it mutual? Did you end up liking the person after the fact?? Or did you wish later that you would have pursued the person differently because they were worth more than just that.....but now it's too late???
2007-11-14 09:03:58 · 32 answers · asked by Jme 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Big Papi... ROFL!!! Sorry about your experience!
WHY DO PPL COME TO ANSWER QUESTIONS AND ADVERTISE THEIR OWN QUESTIONS? Geez ppl.
2007-11-14 09:14:59 · update #1
several and y not? and no ur not using the other person if both of u just want to have sex and no u dont have to want to persue a relationship and no i never regret one night stands because they are just that, u can be friends with the person after or whatever but i wouldnt go out with sum1 i had a one night stand with. and i honestly dont think what i just said makes me a slut ,but unfortunatly ppl are too quick to label these days
2007-11-14 09:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I've had one..My good friend was having a party and she wanted me to meet this guy.. I regret it but at the same time I don't because I do believe it happened for a reason.. I am not one to have 1 night stands, but we did have a lot of chemistry and we were both completely drunk and high (yea not a good mix!)
So the next day he said that he would like to pursue something with me and take it further and I wanted to also..I kept telling him how I wasn't some loose girl and that I was one to wait when it came to sexual things..He also kept telling me how he never had a one night stand before..We just had this connection..So after that we started dating, our relationship was amazing and we dated for about 6 months..I believed he was my 'soul mate' because we had this amazing connection and he was everything I ever wanted in a guy..Sadly, he got into a car accident last November and passed away..It's been hard but I know he's in a good place and I am so lucky I got to have a piece of his heart..
And you know how you hear about those people who die young and everyone loved them? That was him ! He had a wonderful personality and he was super sweet...I guess it wasn't meant to be. But I am thankful for the time I had with him..Sorry if this was too long..
Hope I helped :)
2007-11-14 09:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by sorry richard! ps :amanda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I had.
No one is using each other.
I haven't got used yet I guess. but some girls do just for fun.
yeah it's like mutual.
Yeah I end up liking the girl, but I haven't pursued the girl.
And at the end no one will have a regret for it, it's more of a attraction to another person than true love.
She's not like a, what u call a hooker.. she's a friend of my other friends who would like to have some fun!
My heart is beating for her but I don't know if it would be a good relationship so I stay away from those kind of feelings for now....
And if I ever became her boyfriend. How will I know if she's faith-full to me.... and the same thing to her...
2007-11-14 09:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I've unintentionally used guys for that, I didn't realise they had any deeper feelings, of course it was mutual because otherwise it wouldn't happen? I've liked the guy afterwards, even gone out later. And no I've never regretted anything. That's an unhealthy mindset. The one time I wished it hadnt happened was because someone had spiked my drink which means it was not my fault so I couldn't regret it.
2007-11-14 09:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by munchkin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
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2007-11-14 09:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes i've had a one night stand.
it was mutual
no i did not like the person afterwards
now he's living his life and i'm living mine.
no hard feelings on my part.
2007-11-14 09:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by cyrontae1110 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and it was a mutual thing. We were there for each other at the right time, and I have no regrets.
2007-11-14 09:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by out for justice. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
I guess we used each other.
Never saw her again, but I've still got the memory.
No regrets.
2007-11-14 09:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by ic2olney 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I have 2 night stands now
2007-11-14 09:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I did once...a looong time ago and every time I think about it I want to barf! My skin is crawling right now! I had my drinking goggles on, you see.
2007-11-14 10:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋