I can not & will not have an abortion, but I feel as though he will think I want to trap him or something....somebody help!
2007-11-14 08:14:26 · 24 answers · asked by im_da_qween 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There are many many loving parents who can't have children of their own that are desperately searching for a baby to adopt. You should seek some counseling to help you decide if you should give the baby up for adoption.
If you don't believe in abortion for religious reasons you shouldn't be having sex for religious reasons.
2007-11-14 08:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you because I have been there. When I got pregnant my boyfriend (and myself) wasn't ready to be a parent. I didn't want to lose him but I am also very against abortion. So I made my choice. Today I am very happiely married (to my baby's daddy) our daughter will be two next month and she is the most wonderful child ever. I basically sat down with him and said I want to be with you and I'm going to have our child. If you don't want to be a part of her life then fine I will go it alone. It doesn't always happen like we did some guys (as well as some girls) are just to immature for the responsiblity of being a parent. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-11-14 08:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by jgurl20022 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't really answer-if you wanted to keep the baby.
Abortion is not the only option. I don't think that I could have an abortion either but if I could not aford to take care of it and didn't have any support, the loving thing to do for that child is adoption. Let some one who is unable to have children and is waiting for a child to come into their life.
Ofcoarse, if you want to be a single parent I would wish you the best of luck. Hard road ahead and best of luck!
2007-11-14 08:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Angela S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact planned Parenthood. States decision in how some distance alongside you may want to be for an abortion at a health center vs. a wellbeing facility, yet they could understand. expenditures are often round $500, yet they do decision as a lot as $800 in some places. understand that they cost a sliding scale. in case your income is a lot less, you're charged a lot less. definite, an abortion is danger-free, notwithstanding the longer you wait, the further issues can take position. that's an similar technique as a D&C after a miscarriage.
2016-10-24 05:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that if he didn't want another child he should have taken precautions to insure he didn't get anyone else pregnant with either using a condom or being 100% sure by getting a Vescectomy.
Now it's your decision, and your body; he's just going to have to learn to deal with it. If he decides not to be a part of that childs life, that's his decision that he will regret at some point in his life once he matures and realizes his mistakes.
For now, take care of yourself and the needs of your unborn child.
2007-11-14 08:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tigerbabe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont have an abortion then! It's not right to kill an innocent life just for a guy. Tell him ur raising the baby with or without him
2007-11-14 08:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by ★ Ðяєäмíŋg Ôυт Łøυ∂ ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him, and you love the baby you guys made together, and you're not aborting it, and that you'd love for him to stay with you and be a family...but if that's not something that he's ready for then, that's fine....but the baby will live.
Kudos to you for keeping your baby.
Tell him that you aren't trying to "trap" him...but that you aren't going to kill an inocent baby either....and let him decide what he wants to do.
Good Luck
2007-11-14 08:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey ,been through this before, and I would just tell him that you love him, and you are not trying to trap him, and you want him to be apart of the baby's life, but if he doesn't then have a nice life! me and my baby will be fine, then take his *** for child support, because you shouldn't be humping unprotected, but you don't want no kids! these men kill me sometimes! Good Luck, and Congrats
2007-11-14 08:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention if you are married to the father of the baby, so I'll assume you're not. It's YOUR body, YOUR choice whether or not you want to continue this pregnancy, and raise this child. Your thinking that he thinks you might trap him might be right on target, since you know him and I don't. It takes two people to get pregnant. If he didn't want to have kids he should've been more careful. Whether he wants to have a part of his child's life or not, you have every right to ask for child support since he DID take part in creating this baby...I wish you luck..stick to your guns, it's your life, it's the life of your child.
2007-11-14 08:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by RetroDiva65 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
leave serve him with papers for child support raise the kid on your own the best way you can if he decided at a later date he wants to be a part of his childs life let him it will answer questions for your child but in no way apologize for the situation and don't bend on yur beliefs.
2007-11-14 08:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by frogbfound 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋