My dads side of the family does not except it. They think they are retarded and bis are confuesed. I get really defansive and complain to my mom about it and i think she is getting suspicious. What should I do?
2007-11-14 05:37:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It is none of their business...
2007-11-14 05:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Uh......why might want to you ought to inform your mom your bi if you have become married to a guy?????? I take it you at the prompt are not planning on dishonest on your husband? Then why does your mom favor to attraction to close you're bi???????? Sorry, no longer a reason in hell for her to attraction to close that. As to the atheism, you already know what her reaction will be, that is why you dont favor to inform her. and also you extremely shouldn't except you want to break off communique mutually with her. Cuz you already know that is what she'll do.
2016-10-24 05:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is how i felt when i told my family my dad's side of the family hates bi's and i told everyone after about a year of hiding the secret and i was scared to death but once i told everyone my dad's side of the family was ok cause i was. and my mom was more than happy to know then keep a really big secret from her so tell your mom first and then slowly give your dad hints and everything will be ok so i hope i helped and if you want you can e-mail me at rickett_alisha_2006@yahoo.com and talk to me! i will be more than happy to talk to you or anyone about stuff like this!
2007-11-14 06:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am Bi. I told my mother. She was suspicious because of all the girls picking me up. haha. She has a hard time with it, but she is relaxed about it because I really want to marry a man and have children.
2007-11-14 05:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by tequilakee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People tend to fear what they do not understand. If this is the lifestyle that you have chosen for yourself then you need to be honest with BOTH of your parents. Unless you are underage, acceptance by them of your choices will come with time. However, it is up to you to decide how serious you are with your decision. Maybe your parents just need some educating on the subject. Hiding your lifestyle will only cause doubt in your mind as well as theirs.
2007-11-14 05:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by dayzed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep ur personal life outside the family. They already all know how u r - just give them more time to accept it. I really hope they don't cause you trouble, but the best thing is to keep it on the down-low until you have control over your life and are more independent.
2007-11-14 05:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her you have had relationships with both genders and that it really hurts you when your dad's family talks bad about people like you. That way at least you'll have someone to vent to after having to deal with people who are clueless and do not understand a person's ability to be attracted to male and female
2007-11-14 05:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by Deny_Zoo29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life the way you want to. At the same time, try not to slap your family in the face with it if you know it's going to cause a huge ordeal for you.
If you are comfortable, tell your mom. I know that if either of my sons came to me and said they were bi or gay, it wouldn't make a bit of difference to me.
Good Luck.
2007-11-14 05:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would say just talk to her, Moms are great confidants. My sister suffered with her "secret" for a long time, it was making her physically sick. Until she told my Mom. She felt the weight of the world off her shoulders. We just never told our Dad about it, he's kinda like yours.
2007-11-14 05:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by texicangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I'm just an average mom, but I love my kids intensely. Whatever their sexual orientation, or that of their friends, I will pass absolutely no judgment. I love them no matter what. I hope you can talk to your mom about it and I hope she will be as accepting of you as a mom should be. It might take her a little while to digest it, though. Be patient...we didn't talk about these things to our own mothers. GL
2007-11-14 05:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by originalkippyj 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since your dad is closed minded just take your Mom aside and tell how you feel. That you like both sexes....not just the traditional. Once you get your mom to understand it should be easier to for dad to understand.
2007-11-14 05:41:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋