I'm pregnant. How do I tell the father, we're only 15??

Question

We've been together for 3 years and stated having sex about a year ago. I missed a period so I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. How do I tell him that I'm having his baby??

Answer 1

Tell Him like how tell us. ' I missed a period so I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. '

Answer 2

Well I think as the father he deserves to be told first face to face, just the two of you. I mean your parents will probably be mad,shocked,angry ect. at first. He deserves a "heads up". But just believe that everything will be ok. Don't let anyone talk you in to anything drastic that you don't want to do. Figure out what you want, then talk it over with the father and then tell the parents. Try and stay calm, remember how you felt when you saw the test results, well, the father and grandparents will probably have some of those feelings too. There is plenty of help out there for you,whatever way you want to handle it. even if your boyfriend or parents don't agree. Hang in there sweetheart,God Bless You.

Answer 3

you are going to have to tell hi sooner or later. I've seen a lot of teenage pregnancies on this sight. haven't you people ever heard of birth control. you teenagers need a hobby besides sex. would make your lives a lot easier in the future. just my opinion, but 12 seems a little young for a serious relationship. hope you guys care for each other because now you will be raising a baby. hope your guy really loves you. you could be raising baby alone if he freaks and cuts out. do all the parents know? the boyfriend could be the least of your worries!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Well, tell him you need to talk. Sit him down and tell him. Then you need to tell your parents. He needs to tell his parents. Then you all need to come together and talk about this. This seems like a hard thing to do but you will feel better when you do. Just know that you aren't the first and you won't be the last teens this happens to. Things happen in life and you are human. If you decide to have the baby your life will be harder and you will have to rely on your parents and work out how you will go to school etc. but people do do it. So be strong. I hope the young man sticks around.

Answer 5

I agree with jebitja4. He must know that having sex can result in pregnancy. He took that risk, now he must also take the responsibility. I don't know what your relationship is like with your parents but I would also tell your Mom and Dad. You are going to need all the help and support you can get. If telling your parents isn't an option, go online and look up your local pregnancy counselling center, they will help you.

Answer 6

This is what I did when I was 15 and prego. Go to family planning or someware you can get a free test and they will give you paper work stating you are. Then meet up with him and tell him you have something very important to talk about then just have him read the paper. You do need to tell him an it is never easy. PS this is also how I told my mom she told my dad.

Good luck and email me if you need some one to talk to.

Answer 7

Tell the father to forget about education and work 2 fulltime jobs. Babies are very expensive. Teens seem to forget that sex can cause pregnancy. Hold him responsible for his actions even if he tries to run away.

Answer 8

have you thought about the hard ship you are giving yourself although it is too late now,,, tell your father in a sit down , grown up atmosphere, he will likely be pissed, and yell,, try to handle it, now that you will be responsible for two, remember you got pregnant, not your parents, so dont expect them to help out, they might, but I have read too many times how young people are mad at their parents because they wont watch the kid while the young parent wants to go party with friends, you are going to miss out on a whole lot in life,,

good luck

Answer 9

look i need to be honest u need to sit him down and tell him the truth and tell him it was ya mistake and it actually was like u gota understand ya father is not gonna take that lightley i mean ur 15 he dosent want his baby to have a baby bcuz if u dnt tell him he is gonna find out i mean ya stomach will start to get big and if he try's to disown u then thats him but atleast u didnt hide it from him

Answer 10

Tell him to come over to your house and show him the pregnancy test, and tell him it's his. Ya'll need to plan out what ya'll are going to do (whether you want to keep the baby, adoption, ect.) and make sure you think about the baby and whether or not you can provide for the baby. Then tell you're folks.