If you caught your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend having an affair; caught them in the act...What would you do???
2007-11-14 01:44:32 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would go psycho crazy mad! I would beat the brakes off of her first then throw her @ss out naked and beat to a pulp. Then I would torture him and make him wish he were dead. I would divorce him and hit him in his wallet. I'd get alimony and anything else that I could get. I am sure I wouldn't be done yet, either!!! I'd make his life sh*t until I got over it!
2007-11-14 02:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather not have a baseball bat in my hands because I think violence is wrong.
I would tell the woman to leave in a very unkind way using foul language so she understood I clearly know what she is. And then I would silently stare at my husband until he decided to step up to the plate and be a man and explain. If he said something stupid like , she doesn't mean anything I would start saying things like, so , people do not matter to you and you feel free to just use people and hurt them all so your little peepee can have a few minutes of fun?
LOL the funny thing is.. this DID happen to us ..he did it.
So I did exactly what I just told you. He did what I thought he would. He stammered about how she didn't mean anything to him and I said that means my dad was right about you. .. I laughed then really hard because my daddy is a lawyer and I watched the cheat see his whole life and everything WE ( or more like me ) had worked for for years slip away from his grasping greedy hands. We were married for about eleven years. NO kids thank God! I found out later he got himself fixed so he could not have any ! He never bothered to care enough to ask me if I did not want kids.
Now that being said I want you all to know I was sorely tempted to forgive and forget because I love the man even with his faults. But once I saw it with my own eyes, all the years of his messin around with other women came sharply into focus in me. The pain what he did tyo me was so bad I cannot even begin to tell you. I felt like my heart really did break in two. I began to see clearly all the junk he did while pretending to be so in love with me. All the women. All the women. And after I thought about it I began to think maybe some men too! Found out he was busy telling all OUR friends ( not anymore since they all knew and never told me or even hinted about it ) that I was not good enough for him and that I was lousy in bed and whatever else he could think of to justify and rationalize his terrible actions.
OH MY ! I HATED him for such a long time. Now it is alot easier to laugh about it. But i still hate his guts. And I am SO glad I did not have children to him. That is the ONE thing I can thank him for in the whole mess. Nothing else though.
2007-11-14 10:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd slap the chit out of her for starters and then I would proceed to beat the other person into the hospital. The reason I would beat himm so badly is not so much that I would be angry but to teach him very important lesson of how dangerous it is to sleep with another man's wife.
During his beating and his recovery, he will have time to reflect and examine the significance of the beating and the next time he gets the urge to do that, he will reflect on the tremendous and painful beating he sufferred the last time.
This would benefit all of society
2007-11-14 01:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by huckleberryjoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I caught her having an affair with her boss. We talked it out and she said it will not happen again for the sake of our only 9-year old daughter. She resigned from her work. Two years later it happened again and this time it was different. When she wasn't around, I packed up, brought my daughter with me, and transfered to another faraway place where she couldn't find us. I got married again and I am happier. She got married too, went to U.S., and she said she's happier than when we were together.
2007-11-14 02:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by arky_ozleck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i actually did. i was so mad, i physically threw them out of the house naked. i didn't give them there cloths either. then i just sat down and opened a beer when they were pounding on the door. i decided that it wasn't enough so i went to the fridge, got out some eggs and started throwing the eggs at them. the cops came about 20mins later and made me let them in the house. i was still throwing the eggs at them when they were in the house with the cop in there.
2007-11-14 01:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by BT_HMS is my messenger id 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I caught my husband/wife in the act, I'd grab my video camera and get it all on tape. It would be useful evidence in my divorce!
2007-11-14 02:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Smilies 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First Ill beat her DOWN No matter what...naw I take that back if i didn't know her Ill let her go, but if I knew the chick, she dead....After I'm done with Her, I'm going for him....I don't fight dudes, but He would leave the house with some type of a mark or scar...Hes gonna be ****** up, trust me...Sorry for the language..But I dont play....
2007-11-14 02:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel sorry for that girl cause I would bet the **** out of her. And then for my husband or boyfriend there aren't even words that I could say what I would do.
2007-11-14 01:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by volleyball #6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I did was turn the light back off in the room where they were walk out the door and said you should ock you front door. He tried to call me and tell me it wasn't waht I thought blah-blah-blah. I never messed with him again after that.
2007-11-14 01:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by nyjae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the relationship, it's pretty much over after that. Any attempt at reconciliation will fail because of the broken trust.
2007-11-14 01:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋