well ive been with my boyfriend for a while now..
and we decided to have sex..
im only 14..
so we had it the first time with a strawberry condom
and the second time with a normal one
then i got my period and everything but then..
the third time we had it with this condom i got from a souviner shop when i went over to paris..
i think it was only suppose to be used as a souviner..
but we used it anyway
ever since then ive been getting bad cramps & i have been needing to pee frequently
im abit scared i may be pregnant
am i just over exaggerating?
2007-11-13 21:55:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Is your period late now? If so, take a test.
You might want to see a doctor though. You might have a urinary tract infection if you're having to pee frequently. Could also have an STD.
No form of birth control is 100% effective, so if you aren't prepared to handle the consequences of sex, which would mean pregnancy, then you should not be having it.
2007-11-13 21:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless it said 'not to be used as birth control' then it is a normal condom.
The cramps and needing to pee you describe sound more like PID or cystitis, not symptoms of pregnancy, and could have been caused by too much activity, or possibly the strawberry condom. Or you could be allergic to latex.
Go to the doctor (or your school nurse) with your symptoms and see what they say. Next time you have sex use a non-flavoured and non-coloured condom, and if you get the same symptoms try a latex free condom like Durex Avanti.
Good to see you are being safe and good luck :)
2007-11-13 22:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cramping and urgency are not symptoms of early pregnancy usually. I would suspect you have a slight bladder infection.
Get AZO standard tablets at the pharmacy and use for a day. If the symptoms go away, you probably have a slight infection.
If the symptoms do not go away, see a urologist. And you can get an early pregnancy test at the pharmacy too. But please wait to do that until you see if you have an infection. You don't want the infection to get worse, if that's what you have.
2007-11-13 22:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do a test honey. You buy them from the chemist and for most of them you pee onto a stick and within a minute you get a 99% accurate Yes or No to the burning question. You should also see your doctor to be absolutely sure.
2007-11-13 21:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Hencor72 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you go to your doctors. It sounds less like pregnancy and more like an infection. Which could be cleared up with antibiotics. You should check this out. Your doctor has a duty of confidentiality to you, so they wont inform others (except in extreme circumstances, which yours don't seem to be at first glance).
2007-11-13 22:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by mycornertime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is too young for sex - if you aren't ready to cope with the consequences of sex (ie. babies) then you shouldn't be having it!
I suggest you visit the doctor & get checked out - if it is an infection you need to get it treated & the doctor can set your mind at rest as to whether you might be pregnant and give you advice on birth control if you intend to carry on having sex.
2007-11-13 22:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your mom. You could have an infection or worse .And you need to get on birth controll!! Would you rather talk to your mom NOW before you get PG or after when its to late? I was in the same way i was scared to death but after I talked to my mom things were not as bad as I thought they be.If you can not tell her to her face send her a note she can read it then come talk to you
2007-11-13 22:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by EducateDon'tJudge! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why so young? Your only a baby...
Well I know you don't want to hear this... but see a doctor. Or pee on one of those pregnancy things.
2007-11-13 21:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jordan Ryan S 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the only way to be sure is to take a test. You can go to any planned parenthood and they will give you the test for free and they can keep it confidential if you prefer.
2007-11-13 22:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Holly Jo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is why children shouldn't have sex. Sigh. Wait a few weeks and if you don't get your period have your parents take you to the doctor. Oh and STOP HAVING SEX IF YOU ARENT READY FOR BABIES.
2007-11-13 21:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Amzy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋