Abusive Teacher?

Question

Well this teacher I have had for home ec, has hated me, in May she yelled at me when I said I didn't want feel liek eating the burger seeming I felt very sick, in class she always picks on me, then yesterday I kindly told her I wouldn't be able to get my cooking ingredients for tomorow because I have a job interiew, my mum doesnt get home till very late and my brother has his yr 12 formal and she jsut started screaming at me 'i have this and htis and this and this' and then I was sitting down on a computer at that time and she grabbed my head and shook it backa nd forwards.. and then she said rude bitchy comments to me, and then today I gave her a note from my mum saying we were very busya nd wernt able to get the ingrediants and she through another huge spaz at me yelling at me saying im so disapointed its not your mothers problem that you cant get your cooking its your fault' i left her staff room burst into tears, then in the cooking class she was so bitchy,, what should I do????

And just so you know I am really scared of her now, I shoudl go to school and the teachers shoudl be my friends, isnt it illegal for my teacher to laya finger on me except in life saving situations?? My mum really wants to ring up the school, my friends all say I should tell someone, like hte principal, I realyl jsut don't knwo what to do, and I wanted to be a home ec teacher before I met her, she is terrible, and I just dunno what to do im really scared, I spent half of today crying my eyes out I was so upset, its not nice to be screamed at by your teacher, I thought yeh sre bitchy comments and being a b**** is normal at school but not from teachers!!

Well the principal at my school is umm lets sa a t**l, well when she shook my head I think she was making me agree with her and she wa slike laughing, but she was just spastic, I have 2 friends that witness the stuff yesterday, and today another friend was with me when she had a go at me for bringing a note!!

My mum really wants to complain but I wont let her but I said if she does one more thing I will elt her, I just I don't knwo whether I shoudl say anythign, to teh school chaplan, head of year 9, someone at the school, I think I might tell my Business teacher she is really nice and yeh... she woudl give me advice but im not sure whether thats the right hitng to do, I really want to get out of that class but its the middle of the term and I cant realyl jsut swap classes, I just hope she will just stop tormenting me if not the school will find out, she doesnt deserve to be a teacher, and she had this disease earlier hte year and had short term memory loss, but she hasnt anymore!!

ngina, well my brothers formal was on at 5-6 (the time they arrived), like I really wanted to see him arrive, my job interview was at 5:45, I had to miss see my brother arrive so as soon as my interview finished I wasnt about to go shopping, I was racing back to hopefulyl see my brother!! My mum is a single mum who gets no support from my dad and hasnt since I was 3!! I am now 14 my borther is 17, my mum struggles to go shopping everyweek cuz she has to work till late, I live in a country town so teh shops arnt open till late except on thursdays and of course I have to cook on wednesday, plsu my mum had to go away from friday night to sunday night for family matters so we oculdve buy the ingrediants ont eh weekend, seriosuly this teacher just wont believe me, arghh and this is so stressfull and I have so many assignments due and im under so much stress its terrible!!

Answer 1

complain to the school, ministry of education, sue her for slander, defamation( say how she spoiled your reputation, how you get nervous breakdown at home,how much emotional and physical trauma you suffered etc)

Answer 2

You need to tell your school principal. Most importantly you need to check the school policy on the issue of teacher's harrasment so that you can know best how to handle the situation

The other advice I would give you is to learn that the teacher's way and then do good according to them as long as you do not go against your principal. For example as you were going to your interview, I am sure there was a shop you could have purchased the items required even thou is just a few of them. This way she will appreaciate the effort made.

Answer 3

You're right on all counts! She is supposed to be teaching, not demanding or controlling. How dare her for shaming you in class. It's no wonder you don't want to go to her class. I wouldn't want to either.

What do teachers tell all the students ..... NO FIGHTING! What she and the principal "forget" is, the same holds true for teachers.

Your teacher broke the "golden rule" when she layed her hands on you. That's a big NO NO and she should be called on the carpet for her bad behavior.

If the principal doesn't take your complaint seriously, who do you turn to? If you've learning anything out of this whole mess, it's that you can't trust the principal to come to your aid. Now that's not right either. The one person you can just is your mom.

Your mom is right about wanting to help you with this bad situation. You deserve the support your mom is willing to give you. You shouldn't have to go it alone.

If the principal didn't bother to listen to you, don't bank on the principal to seriously listen to your mom. Therefore you and your mom will have to take this abusive behavior to you further.

Both you and your mom go together and file a complain with the police department. Then you, mom and police officer go to the principal again with your complaint about your teacher grabbing your head and shaking your head back and forth.

Schools, teachers and principals need to be held accountable for what goes on between teachers and students. We all need to be accountable for our actions. Schools are no exception, especially when students are being abused by teachers.

Who's going to be this teachers next victim? I'm sure you wouldn't want to here about another student having to go through the same you have been going through next year.

Sometimes it's necessary to go the extra mile in order to get justice served. Let your mom help you. You're her daughter and she wants to protect you from further abuse and those that would come after you.

Answer 4

What is wrong with these teachers now adays? You need to call the cops, report this. You need to inform authorities. This teacher needs to stop being abusive she has no RIGHT to lay a hand on you or for any reason SCREAM at you. You need to let the principal know asap and inform your mom. I recommend that you tansfer into another class. And that teacher should be put on LEAVE.

Answer 5

CALL THE POLICE TONIGHT DONT DELAY THIS ANY LONGER SHE NEEDS TO BE PUNISHED FOR TOUCHING YOU PLEASE DO IT FOR EVERY OTHER CHILD AT YOUR SCHOOL AS WELL AS YOURSELF call the cops she is NOT allowed to lay a single finger on you if anyone saw her doing it then they are a witness too assault and they should be charged accordingly good luck and still keep up with home ec its a life skill which you need go to the cops NOW NOW NOW dont delay they will even come to u this teacher needs to be made an example of what not to do to a child they are SUPPOSED to teach not abuse I AGREE WITH DAVID the department will cover it up if u dont call the police

Answer 6

You should tell your principle.. Its against the law for a teacher to touch you, she can lose her teaching licenses.. Tell your mom as well, because that wasnt cool. Dont be afraid to go to school, you are in the right here, not her.. Go to school and be a tattle tale. Someone like that should not be working with kids

Answer 7

It puzzles me that you are asking complete strangers for an answer when you refuse your mother's intervention. Does that seem an effective way to behave? You also should look at your own contribution in this relationship. Both you and your teacher have rights.

Answer 8

Tell your mom to Go up to the school and tell the principle and if she doesn't FIRE her than have your mom call THE BOARD OF EDUCATION .....she sounds unstable and Not fit to be around kids let alone a teacher.

Answer 9

For one thing teachers are not your friends they are teachers.

Though she being a teacher should never ever, ever, ever lay her hands on you. If you were my kid and this was happening to one of mine there would be a out of work teacher!!
This is something your mother has to deal with. BTW your mother needs to pull you from that class now. Not when this "person" hurts you!!
You poor kid!! This makes me angry just thinking of her putting her hands on you!!

Answer 10

Go straight to the police. Don't go to the Principal. If you go to the police it takes it out of the department of education's hands and they won't cover it up.