to want to get married very badly but have a great great fear that your husband is going to leave you because he's gay? has anyone read angels in America and then fear becoming Harper? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
2007-11-13 15:52:42 · 17 answers · asked by hotsurfer55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've never encountered that particular phobia, but all I can say is that it sounds irrational to me. Just because you have read something doesn't mean it's going to happen to you. If a man is gay, first of all he probably wouldn't marry a woman unless it's a coverup. And secondly, men who are born heterosexual do not suddenly become gay. Being gay is not merely a lifestyle that a person has chosen. He or she is born that way. So quit worrying and go ahead and tie the knot.... Good luck!
2007-11-13 16:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you think "Married" is just a "title"? Why would a woman marry a man who "may" be gay?
Do a "search" on the Biblical phrase "un-equally yoked together."
I have no knowledge concerning "Angels in America", therefore I may not be "qualified" to help you.
2007-11-14 00:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally confused, why would you wanner marry the person if you think he is gonner turn gay.. and if you didnt know for example, then why you bother, its his problem not yours.. it was just not meant to be between you two, you will find your straight guy... lol
2007-11-13 23:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have and had the same problem..
im sure you will be fine as i have just gotten married and am happiest person alive try not to stress out about it if it happens then so what wasnt meant to be just hope for the best..
2007-11-13 23:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am lost??? Why would anyone get married to someone they think could ever turn gay?
2007-11-13 23:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Y would any woman want to marry an man with female tendasies...
2007-11-13 23:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by MYthoughts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have someone in mind to marry? And if you think they are gay,why would you want to put yourself it that position?
2007-11-13 23:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you're either thinking about this a little too deeply, or suppressing some fairly strong concerns/issues with your relationship. figure out where you are at, and what you want before jumping into anything.
2007-11-13 23:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Libsent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy is gay and it never occurred to you then you really had no business marrying him.
2007-11-13 23:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offense but in this case you read too much. this is a rare action for men
2007-11-13 23:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by H C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋