I have two friends that are fighting right now and it has been going on for quite awhile now and idk what to do and I am in the middle of this and one of them wants me to go with them and then the other wants me to go with them and they are just spliting me in two and I have tried to talk to them but that just seems to make it worse and they seem to move farther apart and I seem to be spliting apart and this is just very frustrating for me and I don't know what to do got any ideas
2007-11-13 15:31:00 · 10 answers · asked by ~*~NeSsA~*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stay away from both of them for a few days, don't be mean just tell them you have other plans, leave them alone for awhile and when they get bored without you around they may come to their senses and become friends again. If they don't at least you'll have a few days of peace anyway.
2007-11-13 15:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by bluebonnets1952 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could set a dinner for the 3 of you. its ok if they yell each other during the dinner. it is good to let it out, the anger they feel to each other. it will lessen the burden in their heart once they confronted each other. one thing you could do is to talk to them that spliting up the friendship because of nonscence thing is cheap. im sure you 3 dnt want to be cheap. you could reminist the things that you do together in order for the three of you to remmeber the good deeds that you did for each other. remember that God do all things for a reason. maybe He wants to test your friendship, or He wants you you to asses each other. thats all i can say for now.
2007-11-13 23:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by taton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe descide which one is the true friend and stick with them.
or
stay away from both of them and then hang out with some other friends or make some new friends..
If they were a true friend they wouldnt be trying to split you in half and pulling you in different directions
true friends dont do that
2007-11-13 23:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me stay out of it! this is how i lost one of my ex Bf's just tell each one that you cant get in the middle of this and that you cant take a side because u love them both and would hate for a stupid fight to ruin their realationship, just relax everything will work itself out in time just be careful until it does
2007-11-13 23:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I'm positive YOU have your own thoughts/feelings on this 'issue'.tell them BOTH how you feel...if it makes either or both of them mad then so be it-they are usuing the same 'oh shame on you' guilt trip & you should agree w/them or you're not a 'true friend' or some such bull!!! if they cannot respect you're thoughts then they aren't much of a friend. peace.
~SC.
2007-11-14 06:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by shopperchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard but tell them they are both your friends but you can not get in the middle of their fight. Perhaps see them seperately for a while .
2007-11-13 23:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats happoned to me before, decide what is the true friend, and try to get her to bring the friends back together, or just hang out with hte ppl seprately.
2007-11-13 23:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sprout☮ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get news friends. At your age they are everywhere and then you will not have to worry about these two back stabbing you to better their position.
Good luck.
2007-11-13 23:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would hang out with other friends getting involved is not good.I know you probably love your friends but staying out of it is best because it is not your fight
2007-11-13 23:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate this!!! what u need to do is back away! let them figure this one out...it's not ur problem.
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2007-11-14 22:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋