I am a Junior in college. I am working very hard to get good grades and often choose not to party. The problem though is I have friends that are females here but on a relationship side I feel that they all see me as unattractive because I care a lot about my studies (gpa 4.0 Mathematics major). What can I do attract more females? I am 5ft 9 175lbs medium build and I'm a resident assistant at Merrimack.
2007-11-13 15:26:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
I don't know of any women who are turned off by an intelligent man. Are you sure there isn't another reason? Do you take any time off from studying to have fun? You don't need to party all the time (or at all), but if you seem too grim, or if you come across as if you consider yourself superior to others because of your grades, you may not seem like relationship material. You may also be looking at the wrong types of women. You aren't a conventional person, so if you are going after the conventionally popular women, you may not get far. Try meeting people who share your interests instead.
2007-11-13 15:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by neniaf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change who you are!!! If these girls think you're unattractive because you're studious, then they're shallow and don't deserve you anyway. You should be proud of having a 4.0, esp. as a math major! Wow....that's great! What about girls that are in your classes? Not everyone in college in a partier. Maybe try to find girls in your math major classes that may take their studies more seriously as well. At the end of the day, you're there to get an education and that should be your priority so don't dumb yourself down to "fit in" or attract girls.
2007-11-13 15:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're an RA and you can't pick up chicks? Wow...
I was a math/physics double major living in an honors dorm, I can relate. Work out, for sure. But talk to your chick friends, and ask them what they think of your personality. Were they ever attracted to you? Were you attracted to them? Find out where things went wrong.
If you're too busy to party, then when you meet chicks, get right to the point. "I like you, and we should go out." But with some personality!
2007-11-13 16:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Zentraed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I accept as true with you. I see way too many females asserting, "Oh, he lives 3 hours away. What he does not know can not injury him." My boyfriend lives approximately 40 minutes far flung from my college, and that i've got in no way concept approximately cheating on him. no longer in elementary terms because of the fact he lives interior of reach, yet because of the fact i like him. It disgusts me when I pay attention of females cheating with their bf's and vice versa. They need to no longer be depended on, and that they do no longer deserve an substantial different in any respect.
2016-10-16 11:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by henshaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4.0 eh? I just failed a physics test and I had a D before I took the test today. You're lucky you have a good brain.
Workout and don't act like a nerd, be funny, I don't know, try that.
2007-11-13 15:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Graduate and get a very good paying job. That tends to attract a lot of women.
2007-11-13 15:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Crypt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4.0 math major ... you need to hit the gym and build some confidence. Play on an intramural team.
2007-11-13 15:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep being yourself, so that when a girl finally likes you (and I promise this WILL eventually happen), she will really like YOU.
Keep up the good work!
2007-11-13 15:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
work out, get buff. physical exercise is good for you. show the ladies ur guns. impress girls with around ur gpa and classes for "study sessions"
2007-11-13 15:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word... personality.
2007-11-13 15:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by paintedladyinthecityoflies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋