I am not a fan of being unfaithful, but damn woman! TWO YEARS! How the hell do you not go out of your mind? I'd definitely have an affair. Sorry, but two years is too effin' long.
2007-11-13 14:37:29
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answered by cindos_69 5
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You say he has probably found another woman. Do you have any proof, have you asked him or talked about it with him? There are many many reasons that he may not want to have sex. Is it the wise thing to just jump to conclusions? You may feel bad later if you do. What if it is not another woman but something you can help him with? Why don't you try talking to him about it? He is your husband, you should be talking with him about this, not with us. Urge him talk to you about it, but don't accuse him of anything. If you do he will likely become defensive and you will never know why he has been holding back. No matter what though, if he is cheating on you, and you know it for sure, do not cheat back. There is no way that that can fix your marital problems. If you find that you can't stay married, and you divorce him, then you can pursue other men.
2007-11-13 22:38:16
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answered by TAP 6
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Even if he is already cheating on you does not give you the right to do the same thing.
Go to counselling find out what is wrong.
Is he gay?
Has he always not liked sex or is this a new thing for the past 2 years?
The really question here is do you want to stay married to a man that doesn't want to be WITH you?
Does he have a medical condition that you are unaware about?
2007-11-13 22:26:49
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answered by CrazyH 5
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2 years of no sex? I would have run out of patience in the first month of no sex....come on, get real! He wants to stay married, for what? Really, for what? It sounds like he loves his computer far more then you, so I would kick the both of them out and I would do it right now. That is such complete bulls**t...wants to stay married and have no marriage. Doesn't work for me.
2007-11-14 00:11:18
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answered by Anonymous
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maybe turned gay..
no sex are grounds for divorse. That should tell you alot.
He wants to stay married with u to pose for the cameras only. (meaning to get people to think everything is fine) God forbid he looks like he fkd up the relationship. Hell, hes probably waiting on you to cheat so he can point his fkn finger at you and say "take a look at the bad guy"
2007-11-13 22:30:14
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answered by Best Mom!! 5
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omg..leave!
Hes deffently with someone.
Or hes hiding something, scared sharing it with you and if hes on the comp day and night he maybe stressed about something (that certain thing hes scared to share with you). He wants to stay married with you because he loves you, Maybe you should try talking with him about it, and convince him that you will understand no matter what is the reason. It may be health problems or ..something else. Just talk to him, dont be pushy, be a friend
2007-11-13 22:25:39
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answered by Zina A 2
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Y'all should seek counseling, and possibly talk to clergy. Anything before cheating. I know y u want to, but I know u think it's wrong too, or u wouldn't be coming here for help. Good luck
2007-11-13 22:23:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Read 1Corinthians Chapter 7: 1-11 Two wrongs don't make a right remember that......
2007-11-13 22:47:02
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answered by peacefrogzs 3
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You have to follow your heart on this one.....I married for better or worse but, I like sex to much to go without it that long....Maybe try some marriage counseling....
2007-11-13 22:23:02
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answered by Anonymous
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he is selfish to expect you to live without sex, and you already know he's getting it from somewhere else, but don't think he'll just stand by and let you go out and get you some, men are visual and it'll drive him crazy to picture you with anther man, and he might become dangerous crazy
give him the choice, sex or he's out
2007-11-13 22:25:07
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answered by Liteson 3
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