I hate people who just call you stupid and crap just cause you are a teen and think you maybe pregnant.?

Question

I mean does anyone else not think thats rude? I don't post these things to get called names and stuff. I do it for advice. Lots of teens are having sex. So I maybe pregnant and I'm stupid and dumb and all that crap????


I don't get it.

I just know that if i AM pregnant, I sure wouldnt be calling my baby a mistake...that would probably be the worst thing a child could ever hear from their parents

Answer 1

Don't worry about it. I am a teen mom (14 with a 4 1/2 month old). I get criticism ALL the time. I have learned to not let it bother me. People will speak there opinions there is nothing you can do about it. Good Luck

Edit- No baby is a mistake. You may regret having sex so early but you will NOT regret having a baby. I wish I would have waited longer but I don't regret it.

Answer 2

It is stupid the way people act on here. If they do not want to give you advice they need to move on instead of giving you a hard time. A lot of teens end up pregnant because they were either given wrong information or no information on the subject. Some even think that it will not happen to them. That just goes with your age. The older you get the more you realize just how many things can and will happen to you. Babies are not mistakes and we have to make the most of the situations that we find ourselves in. Most of the people that are calling you stupid probably had sex when they were teenagers too. Don't let them bother you.

Answer 3

I try my best to help people who genuinely seem to need help.

However, when I see a girl who says "OMG, i may be pregnate, can u tell meee?", yes it does annoy me.

1.) If you can't spell "pregnant", you probably are too young to be having sex.

2.) We're not psychic or Magic 8 balls. How on earth will we know if you're pregnant? BUY A TEST!

3.) The girls who say "Yeah, I'm 13 and have sex...so what?" have no right to get angry at someone's opinion. If they're so pleased that they are 13 years old and having sex, then why does our opinion matter?

The thing is, this is an OPINION site. We will not all agree on everyone's opinion. There are people on here who come just to be rude, there are trolls, there are the ones who answer every question with an IDK.

Whatever it is, though, it's someone else's opinion. We may not like it, but so what? It's not the end of the world.

Personally, I think a pregnant teenager has WAY more too worry about than the rudeness of people on YA.

Answer 4

You are so right!!! I totally agree with you 100% :) I was pregnant too. And when I needed some advice because I didn't know who to go to I posted a few quetions and people were saying I'm stupid and I shouldn't have been having sex anyways. But they don't understand my situation. I am very young and nobody is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. I'm not stupid for it though. And you aren't either I totally understand. I also posted along with my questions if they would not be rude about it and put me down and they still did. People now days are so inconsiderate. But yes I totally agree. Finally someone understands. Just don't let those people put you down :) Best of luck in whatever you do (if you are pregnant.)

Answer 5

It's sad, but it is a fact of life that people love to judge other people...especially on public forums where the worse they cop in return is a thumbs down (let's see how many I get!)
My best advice is that you make sure you are comfortable in yourself and learn to ignore people that try and bring you down. Also, the old "treat others how you would like to be treated" is important. If you give a compliment to someone today, they may remember how nice it was and give a compliment to someone else tomorrow and so on.
I don't care that you might be pregnant, it is your life... **** happens and people make mistakes. A mistake does not make you a bad person... how you deal with that mistake is 100 times more important.

EDIT//// I agree with what you have added, an unplanned pregnancy doesn't necessarily mean an unwanted pregnancy. I hope that you did not think that I was referring to your unborn baby (if you are pregnant) as a mistake...I just meant mistakes in general.

Answer 6

no, your not stupid.
but your a bit to young, kids are for after marriage.
a baby takes up your whole life when your a teenager.

but it does add an intemidating affect on other people.
also remember that if two teens under the age of 16-18 in most places, even if both give consent to have sex is against the law. because the government believes that minors dont know the after math of their descisions. its called statuary rape. and just because "lots of teens are having sex" doesn't mean your supposed to jump in the fun.
also speaking of which wouldn't u feel embarassed walking around 14 years old, with a baby carrige. you see, teens do this because they think it will make them look better than other people. and it does sometimes. i did have sex when i was 15, no acidents, and i was glad i didn't have one. (im a guy of course)

Answer 7

I've heard numerous people tell me that their parents think they were a mistake, and these people usually dont have good relationships with their parents, and some do, and some of these pregnancies were just unplanned. I dont think any child is a mistake, but life will throw its challenges at you, and I dont think anyone who might be pregnant as a teenager is stupid, but I think that they should have waited longer, and had protected sex, and that way they could still enjoy their teenage years without the finacial responsibility and headache of having to deal with problems while taking care of a child.

Answer 8

You're right. it's rude. This is for advice and answers, not to be called names. Try to ignore those people, and just try to take the advice thats given to you, they don't know you so try not to let it get to you. Now you know to be safe next time, everything happens for a reason. I had a friend who thought she was pregnant and everything that she was going through seemed unimaginable for a 14 year old to have that much stress, and everybody turned on her. The people that make fun of you have probably never been through or seen someone go through what you're going through. Surround yourself around supportive people.

Good luck :)

Answer 9

Hun first what has been done has been done and your right this is supposed to be a place you can get advice. You are doing the right thing by asking the questions it is better then guessing and being wrong. Keep asking anything you need answers to and ignore those rude answers only read the ones that actually help you. Being young and pregnent is not easy and they should not be condeming you for what has already been done. Keep asking don't get discuraged and take the attitude that you don't care. You are doing the right thing by asking regaurdless of how many bad answers you get.

Answer 10

there is not any explanation which you will sense stupid for stressful and in the journey that your well-being practitioner is making you sense that way i'd advise a various well-being practitioner for next toddler in case you have yet another one. on the grounds which you're in basic terms 32 weeks I doubt you're going into actual exertions. you will have Braxtons for a protracted time. in the event that they are no greater beneficial than 2 an hour you're actually not in exertions. As for it transforming into uncomfortable, nicely toddler's understanding of room hon and so are you! it truly is totally commonly used to be uncomfortable and journey diverse aches/pains interior the final couple months. do no longer panic, attempt to take a seat down back and attempt to artwork consisting of your physique interior the direction of the contractions and different aches. attempt sitting in a various place or leaning or bending. in the event that they ease up then its probably no longer something to complication approximately. The rib element would desire to be your babys ft up in there. My son used to jab me interior the ribs occassionally and it replaced into extremely unsightly. If the discomfort gets very very sharp and starts off to take place greater many times or the trials final for 40-60 seconds at a time and don't ease up or worsen then do truly call the well-being practitioner. particularly no rely if it somewhat is interior the decrease back or abdomen and if it radiates backward and forward. they'd deliver you in and examine you and enable you comprehend while you're dialating, effacing and so on. greater beneficial to have peace of recommendations than complication approximately what the docs workplace human beings think of i'd say! superb needs!

Answer 11

i understand what you mean cuz i could have been a pregnant teen but the ppl i call stupid are the ones that say o i didn't wear a condom the past 4 times could i be pregnant! or i had sex w/ 2 guys at a party cuz i was drunk etc etc
there is a difference in being responsible and having sex and yes just be stupid!