dropping out of school.?

Question

i'm 14 in high school, i feel like dropping out. i have so much pressure on my head & stress. i've been depressed for over 3 weeks now. i've stopped eating & only drinking soda. i really hate school my teachers are always yelling at me for things i didn't do. i have no friends in that school & everyone there are all really mean & it's a no way chance i would be able to make friends with them. but thats not the problem family problems, friend problems, i just needa get away from this all & school. its my number 1 problem right now. i've been cutting for over 3 weeks straight i've gotten into alot of trouble; i got beat by my parents; put under alot of threats & disrespectful words, verbal & physical abuse; accussed of many things. & my friends are fading away. i really wanna run away agen. me & my friends that are going through the same things are about to. & i really need some positive advice - nothing like GO BACK TO SKOOL ITS THE BEST CHOICE. some1 that understands me tell me wat 2do

Answer 1

well you must understand that life its hard but its just in times and school in something really important... i had same problems well kinda but school was always a way of getting the stress out of me and whenever there was an injustice i used to talk to councelor and she would always solved my problems... but just think positive and do what you gotta do... but dropping out is not the best way... friends come and go but you must be prepared for life and the only way you'll make is with education.... im here if you ever need someone to talk to.... good luck:)

Answer 2

Ok, I know you said you didn't want to hear this, but stay in school. You're only 14, and quitting now would mess up the rest of your life.

As for the abuse thing, tell someone besides a bunch of strangers on Y!Answers! Tell someone like a guidance counselor or a cop...you HAVE to get out of that situation.

Sweetie, you need to eat. You need to not skip school. If you're not doing the things you say you get accused of, when a teacher looks at your record, skipping is not evidence in your favor, it gives a bad impression.

Stay in school, and focus hard on your schoolwork. If you devote all of your energy into getting through school, then you will not only do really well, but you will not even have time for other problems. And, the whole time your doing that, and you feel left out at school, you can think "Yeah, those girls have so many different friends, friends that they will lose the day after graduation, and they'll never see them again, but me, I am gaining knowledge, knowledge that will never leave me and no one can take it away" You will get so much further ahead in life if you finish school.

Tell someone about the abuse, or move in with a friend. Work hard and focus on your school...the next 3 years will be gone in a flash!

Good Luck

Answer 3

What I think you should do is either talk to a guidance counsellor, or just go on in life, and act like nothing else is wrong. I am sorta in the same situation at school, and I just acted like nothing was wrong. I am 13, and it might be a bit easier on me, but trust me, it's hard enough. So, the friends situation. Just don't answer the people that are picking on you, and, even if their a dork, befriend someone who is nice to you. One good friend is sometimes better than many so-so friends. Now, the parents situation. My dad used to always hit me and threaten me, and then my parents got divorced. If you are too ashamed, embarrassed, w/e, go and talk to another family member who you trust, or, again, the guidance counsellor. and the most important thing... DON'T CUT!!!! That is about the worst thing you can do. So, last word of advice, don't run away from your problems, they will always find you again... Hope that helps, and good luck!!! ^.^

Answer 4

Out of all the things you said, one thing stands out. "i got beat by my parents; put under alot of threats & disrespectful words, verbal & physical abuse." "

Did you actually ACCURATELY describe your situation? What do you mean by "verbal and physical abuse?" Those are not something you would want to say lightly. If this is actually true, you have to tell an adult, such as school counselors or teachers. Nobody deserves to be abused, no matter what circumstance.

You seem to have many problems. My suggestion to you is to PICK ONE PROBLEM at a time, and work at resolving them. You said "number one problem," but you mentioned many problems. Pick just one.

If I were in your position, I'd start with your abuse problem first. Keep in mind though, you are making very serious allegations. If this is not true, you will cause many trouble for yourself and for your parents. Be sure, if you are going to take steps, (such as telling other adults), you check your facts and be sure, it is something you can live with for rest of your life.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Well pressure will always be upon your to be tellign you the truth. And trust me your not the one with the biggest problems even though you might feel like it. Well first of all just think about the future what would it be like with no education? think about it. Maybe take a break from stuff and maybe miss school a bit you know it will come.

Answer 6

I would call Child Protective Service's. If not; stay in school... you don't want to end up living with them your whole life, or a bad life because you chose to drop out. Stay in school; and maybe you could get a scholorship for college and get a REALLY good job.

Answer 7

Nearly every 14 year old feels like they have the world on their shoulders. It will get worse before it gets better. But the important thing is that you stay in school....reallly.

Answer 8

You need to talk to a school counseler. They are there to listen, not judge. And you can feel safe talking to them. They may be able to help with your problems in all areas of your life.

Answer 9

Call the cops and Child Protective Services.

Answer 10

well if you quit school then your life is just going to go down hill from there becuase where are you going to work that gets a good pay and you would just be living craply (that is a word now)