how do you get them back in your life ? and why do you feel so deserted and lonely?
2007-11-13 10:59:10 · 5 answers · asked by susanfiscus6 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Imagine that everyone on earth is sitting in a prison cell. You, for most of your life, were sitting in a cell, behaving yourself and doing whatever your tormentor and jailer told you to do. In return for your freedom, you were given what you needed.
Now imagine that one night, you escaped. You are on the run for the prison gates. All of a sudden, things are not so pleasant. Sirens blare and lights flash as you make your mad dash for freedom.
That's where you are now. Running towards freedom, and the enemy is trying to stop you, hold you down, discourage you to the point of making you turn back to your cell.
Don't give up!!
2007-11-13 11:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by pikid3141 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think that u will change and not be the same person that you was in your past good times and may have many different belief. Like not listening to R&B music. Convince them that you are that same person just that you discover a closer relatinship with God. You will probably feel lonely because some people's life mainly depend on thier family because they bring your life excitment that nobody else can do exept your family. Family are most important
2007-11-13 19:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question does not belong in the psychology section but in Religion and Spirituality.It is probably because you are making your prayers and professions of faith obnoxious to them. Growing closer to God is between you and God alone and if made public is hypocritical. Read Matthew 6:5-8.
You can get them back, if this is the case, by simply adhering to Matthew 6: 3-4
You feel deserted because you do not have a true intimate, secret knowledge of and relation with God. Instead you are trying to get your reward for faithfulness from your family and church members not from God Himself.
Good luck in recouping your family associations, good mental health, peace and Love!
2007-11-13 20:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it that when i grow closer to god i am a lot closer with everyone. except in some cases people think that you are starting to be or act like a perfect person and are always on there back, others are jealous. what you do to get them back is invite them over and have dinner with them and you can make it a group thing if you want make them remember that you are not a bad person. that is if you dont live with them . by the way some people get intimidated when others do better then them.
my teacher told me however that people respond to incentives so put an incentive out there if being nice is not working!
what kind of religion do you believe in?
2007-11-13 19:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by carmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the rest of the family isn't getting the attention they deserve from that person who is 'closer to god' and they think oh god is more important to you then us....
so to get them back in your life don't be so into god be more into them over time of course don't expect instantly back to normal
2007-11-13 19:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Matty S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋