I'm 26 yrs old, been dating a 19 yr old hot guy since 4 weeks ago. He's in the ARMY, so we only get to meet on the weekends. So far, we've only had sex 6 times, and out of those he only ejaculated twice (?!?!). I've never had this problem before, so I'm at a loss, I feel bad because I'm thinking is me. He does feel a bit small inside me, I honestly feel he still has some growing up to do. I asked him, and he said it had something to do with his sugar level. Also, we do it for over an hour, we even have to take water breaks, and he is still able to keep a good hard on. Last night he admitted that he still feels hurt by his most recent break up (on March 2007), so I dont know if that has anything to do with it. He said he is not using any drugs, he does smoke a lot thou, and he said he use to smoke pot every day all thru his high school years. I tried oral, and it didn't work, is it me, and what could I do about it?
2007-11-13 10:35:05 · 5 answers · asked by gatubela 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You should celebrate and enjoy it if you like him. Most complaints come from the opposite situation. Either he can't keep it up, or after he cums it's over. You are the envy of Hollywood and Dollywood, so don't see it as a problem.
2007-11-13 10:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by topink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all about erection,it's nothing to do with him.i had the same problem when i was 18 but the problem was that my girl(s) didn't "help"me the ways i liked(oral)now,i get a hard on and i'm 18cm and i can perform over 3 times in a raw,even more than an hour each time...an other problem is the condoms.if they are not worn right,they put presure in the top of the penis and stop the blood that keeps it hard.and an other issue is that the penis may not be rubbing in the vagina due to a small penis or a big vagina but more commonly because of the female fluids.try using a finger or 2 when penetrated...
2007-11-13 10:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it is likely not your problem or have anything to do with you or with anything you do during sex. He may have a problem. But let me say i personally am an exception to the speed or the ability to release at a normal interval for a sexual relation. Most guys either ejaculate quickly or within a few minutes or so. He may have a health problem or other mental issue that may be causing a hangup. From the sound of it though you do not sound satisfied and may not become satisfied unless he is able to make a change. He may not be the right guy for you.
i do not think you will find there is anything you can do to help him with the issue.
randy
2007-11-13 10:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by PSW s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has trouble with his sugar level and has to take water breaks, he may have diabetes--one of the symptoms is thirst, and diabetes could also cause ejaculation problems. Also stress could be a factor, so could many other things. Google "retarted ejaculation" and you will get a lot of results and maybe a lot more info about what can be done, if anything.
2007-11-13 10:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by William 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you. I think he seems stressed and seem to have a lot on his mind which could cause his mind to be elsewhere during your times together and he's not able to focus on what's really going on in the moment.
2007-11-13 10:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋