I'm crazy about a guy I've become friendly with but never see him as he lives in another state. We chat now but not often. I just can't get him out of my mind..we never went out but got together once. Sometimes he contacts me but recently not much as he has a huge school load. I am trying everything..dating other guys..new hobbies, I even changed job for a change of scene...NOTHING WORKS! Don't tell me time will heal all..this is my soul mate and I'm so disappointed. Any constructive advice would really help.. Thanks.
2007-11-13 09:22:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Before you do anything hasty, you must find out what your guy really thinks of you. Is it worth moving near and making a go of it? Without finding out an honest answer you can't move on. I speak from experience, as the guy I loved so very much didn't have the same feelings for me. It's not easy - but you can move on if you have to. I really hope it works out for you. Good luck!
2007-11-13 09:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by irene187901 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he feels the same way! and then visit him and if he truly feels like he is ur soul mate then do something about it. or else you will be wondering for the rest of your life if he was the right guy for you. If you truly love each other then it WILL work out. If he doesnt seem like your soul mate after you visit him then just try to let it go. If he doesnt feel the same way about you and you still think that you are soul mates then inform him that you want to be best friends with him. Soul mates dont have to be married; they can be just good friends. Best of luck to you!
2007-11-13 18:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Chalkhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How wonderful to have found your soul mate. Do not let him go. Do all you can to get tosee him. Go for it girl.
I live in the north of England and am so in love with this guy from Oklahoma who is currently stuck in Nigeria. Despite the miles between and once he gets home the time zones as well I will do whatever it takes to be with him. Luckily for me he feels the same way. You really do need to know exactly what he feels for you. My best wishes and I hope it all works out.
2007-11-13 17:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what to say to this, all I can say is this;
Come what may. If you truly believe he is your soulmate then have faith in the chance of you meeting and becoming close.
I have the same problem, but the guy lives in my town/village, and it's been going on for a year!
Best of luck, Princess Lola x
2007-11-13 17:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're so in love with this guy then go get him!!! If you dont try, you will wonder forever what could have been! Just make a phone call, or go and visit him. You can't keep this bottled up! And who knows.....he may be thinking exactely the same about you!!
Good luck.....and go for it!
2007-11-13 17:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
soul mate huh? I dont think you should let this one pass without a chance than, i say you just wait it out until Thanksgiving and get together!
2007-11-13 17:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he feels that u'r his soul mate too ... then once u know his feelings, make u'r decision's and action based off that.
2007-11-13 17:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in love with him, go to him and get together and have babies and live happily ever after
2007-11-13 17:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by steven s 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you want to get over this guy, i suggest you buy a ladder!!
2007-11-13 17:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by GOD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋