I need some real friends???

Question

Ok so i have quite a few friends but they are not what i can really call my real friends! I am 21 an have 2 kids. Most of my friends dont have kids which is prob why im always left out of everything! My friends go out a lot and never invite me. They are always doing things together an only bother with me about once a month! They come round, sit on the computer all day and eat the food an when they finish on my computer they go! I dont like to ask them to get off it as they will leave an i`ll end up on my own again! I need some friends that i can go out with an be 21!! Ive split up with my boyfreind and have noone there for me and i wanna go out but dont reall wanna go on my own! Ive text them all and asked what they are up to as they usually go clubbing on a tuesday but they are not tonight! Where can i find some real freinds that i can go out with an have a laugh an talk to bout my probs. All the other mums at my daughters school dont seem to like me. Ive tried to talk to them!!

Answer 1

you need to change your friends -- try to find single mothers that have the same problems you do!!!

Answer 2

Lol, honest my best friends out here in south-east oklahoma are single-moms, I'm not a mother!@##$ so I tend to stay away from getting into intimate situations with them, but I can easily go over to their house on a saturday night, even get druck, and have some GREAT conversations. Not hard, always ran into that whole lust thing, but honesty helps all with such territory and plenty of other stuff to do. But you hunnie for one, don't know what a real friend is, nor do you know what it is you'd do with one. You just want a way out. Your stuck at the house, nothing to do, no one to even listen to you, better yet tell you what your doing right and what your doing wrong, your competely on your own. Then to compesate for it, your reallly just looking for a way to numb you to your situation. That runs deep to the pont that you should of found your real friend already and had your two kids with him, not the ex. So now that you've done that, you get to figure out SERIOUSLY how your going to handle yourself. If your going to play it numb and ignorant. Are you going to play it hard to the f'in core and stop neglecting what you truly need, becasue you not getting what you need hurts those kiddos. A good mother CAN'T compesate for an absents of a family, thats more then a father. Thats also true friends, that show her, love is unconditional, even without the same flesh. All that aside, if you don't play this stuff seriously, your forcing those kiddos to eventually have to do the samething. You've got sometime, spend those evenings doing some self-discovery, and thinking about what a good geniune person might actually be, because for you to be her in this situation, you don't have a clue....