I have been with my bf for many years and he is very secure in our relationship, he has never cheated on me or given me any reason to distrust him. I am overly jealous of other girls! I hate watching tv with pretty girls in them bc I always think he will be thinking of them instead of me. I hardly express my insecurities but rather sit there quietly but in my head i want to tear him away from the tv or whatever situation we may be in. Why am I like this?????? Ive never been cheated on to make me this way. I am attractive and take good care of my body and get compliments frequently. I can be over confident with strangers but the most insecure of ppl when it involves my boyfriend! HELP!
2007-11-13 08:27:11 · 5 answers · asked by mals313 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have same stuff i have been with my bf for awhile hes my everything i hate other girls i hate TV and computer i used to sit there watch TV and this Jennifer Lopez girl pops up in shorts I'm just like omg don't say anything and i watch my bf and hes still watching TV like there nothing wrong with it
but i finally realized guys are guys and girls are girls
yes i admit i have very very low self esteem doesn't help with skinny fit beautifuler girls
but if you want someone to love and be loved by then you gotta trust that even if there is a hotter girl or sexier or sweeter girl
you have to believe your bf wont leave you hes still here and dating you and must mean something y cuz he loves you and needs you and wants only you **** TV **** other girls there nothing compared to you or me that's what they (bf) think also
just go with the flow watch TV don't think bout it and just know there yours not there and girl trust me the TV girls and models and whoever wouldn't even wanna date are men cuz there stuck up and think there better then us and are men
but yea are bfs are perfect i ******* love mine hes gorgeous <3
goodluck and dont worry so much
injoy life and the bf by ur side
2007-11-13 08:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by brunettbabe411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Barnes and Noble and find a book to read on how to find happiness. You are insecure because you don't know yourself will enough. Learn how to trust people. You might be a possessive person, learn how to give and take.
2007-11-13 21:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe deep down you are not comfortable with yourself even though you know that you are an attractive women..
Also..i have sorta a simliar problem with my b/f..i am very secure with who I am especially when I'm in a social setting, however when im with him no so much. I think im intimated by him...?
2007-11-13 16:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by SimplyRed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to a counselor and get those issues taken care of if you want to have a long term relationship with anyone.
2007-11-13 16:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you have low self esteem, guilty conscience, or you are seeing signs you cant trust him.....
2007-11-13 16:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by amn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋