im working far away from my family and old friends @ the moment not for any reason but because i want to get rid of the people who can't dare 2 look @ me and not tell me that i look redicolous because of my overweight size, it hurts me bad everytime they do because i care for this people and i know they care for me and maybe this is their way of encouraging me to change for the better even if i want it to look at that way i can't help getting depress and tired all the time...God knows how much effort i made just to achieved even the slightest change possible but nothing seem to work for me and they're images critizing me haunting my nights all this time...enough reason for me not wanting to go back to my hometown. i can't seem to handle anymore of their critics..it's killing me and they don't even know it!!!
2007-11-13 07:14:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
if you are sure they care then i would tell them that it hurts you.
it only truly matters what YOU think.
if you are making slight changes, that is all a person can do! do it for yourself, if that is what YOU want.
2007-11-13 15:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by I don't know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know that the things they say are not helpful and does not work for you to change. If they really care for you, they will then stop this. If they don't consider other people as friends.
2007-11-17 04:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋