Now I've got your attention: I've known this guy for around 3 years and have really liked him for ages. We have loads in common and get on really well. I always knew that it was unlikely anything would happen with him, as, up until recently he had a long term girlfriend (of almost 2 years), and I knew he would never be unfaithful, or want to hurt her or anything. 1 or 2 months back he broke up with her. He's 18, and I've just turned 16. We've always had this, strong bond I suppose. I'm the youngest within our "group", and I think he's always felt that he has to protect me, but I don't think he realizes how mature I am, in a way, and I don't know how to get him to see. We see each other a lot, and are slightly flirty. I know he cares a lot about me...but I don't know if it's as a friend or more. I have seen him checking me out several times before, but does this mean anything? At my birthday I was sitting on his lap, and holding hands and dancing and stuff. But he tends to be like that with most girls, and not because he’s a player, he’s just comfortable with them. I get the feeling he is more so with me though.
2007-11-13 06:59:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am seeing him at a friends 18th soon, and I know there will be loads of other guys there. Part of me thinks, that it would be good for me too meet new people and guys there as I have wasted so long on him, but another half thinks it is my ideal opportunity with him. I half wonder if it would be better if I was less attentive to him I suppose. As guys like a chase, and I’m pretty sure he knows I like him. At the party, do you think I should play it cool, and play hard to get a little. “You had your chance, you lost it. You will have to work for me if you want me now”. And flirt a little with other guys. Or should I just seize the opportunity to get with him.
2007-11-13 07:00:05 · update #1
Or do you think I should talk to him a little about how I feel (though of course not the WHOLE truth) and get a straight answer from him. Or finally, should I forget it as anything happening with him, but cherish him as a great guy mate?
Btw, I am a virgin and not very flirtatious with guys (especially if they are mates). Have you got any flirting tips. He is also the kind of guy, I would like to loose my virginity too (I know I am likely to get a mixed response to this), but I know he would not take advantage of me or whatever. Sometimes I would like him to though, but that is not really a question.
2007-11-13 07:00:38 · update #2
please ignore the last paragraph
2007-11-13 07:02:42 · update #3
p.s. I am "legal" in my country. So I'm not going to rush into anything, but he would not be breaking the law.
2007-11-13 07:15:07 · update #4
listen this is simple
he is a guy
you are a girl
HE WANTS YOU
2007-11-13 07:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if you go too far with this guy he will go to jail, second, move on. you are young, and don't need to worry about things like losing your virginity. cherish what time you have as friends, and let time take its course. if you go after him now, you may lose him in all regards. had a similar situation when i was 18. we were best friends for 3 years, and decided to date. it ruined everything, and now i don't even know how to get in touch with him.
2007-11-13 15:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think this question belongs in the category. Good luck.
2007-11-13 15:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure he does..go for it...when your 18
2007-11-13 15:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋