Is it even slightly possible that you could feel like you love someone and would do anything for them after only four days of knowing them? On top of that, never meeting them? Is it possible to find out you have so much in common that the emotional bond becomes so great that the physical attraction doesn't matter? Serious answers only please.
2007-11-13 06:42:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
awwwww u looooove me, u craaaaave me, I'm the girl in ur faaaantasy! hahaha shhhhh I won't tell u if u don't! (wink,wink) and guess what??
I looooove u
psst...look I'm on-line hehehe
2007-11-14 02:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I met my husband on MySpace and we talked about getting married before we even met. We got married 3 months to the day of meeting in person and then got pregnant on our honeymoon.....as they say, "Good things take time but great things happen all at once!"
So yeah, I think it's possible. But what do you mean "the emotional bond becomes so great that the physical attraction doesn't matter?" I think the physical attraction will STILL matter. When I met my husband, I never wanted to kiss anybody so bad in my whole life.....But give it a shot, you probably won't know if you are attracted or not till you meet in person!
2007-11-13 06:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to build a strong emotional bond, and I actually believe true love is this emotional bond and the physical is just a bonus.
Furthermore if you've met the person for you it can be instant so don't doubt it.
But to be the devil's advocate the first 18 months you know someone your body is literally in a state of euphoria since your atoms have never been around theirs before.
So give it some time get to know them really and if it is meant to be it will be.
2007-11-13 06:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by pinkenvelope 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can feel like you're in love with someone that quickly, yes. But it'll take more time than that to find out whether that's really what it is, or if it wears off! Not to mention that after only four days, no matter what you feel, you've barely even started to scratch the surface of that person - and, especially if you've never met them in person, you'll be unconsciously filling in all the blanks and stuff you don't know about them, with things that reinforce what (you think) you're feeling. Give it time, and see if the feelings are still there when you know the person inside out, and when the 'first flush' has worn off.
2007-11-13 06:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by marmiteontoast 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is possible that the chemistry whether it's physical or spiritual is so overwhelming that you can be feeling something that feels like love, but isn't. I know what you mean though. It's like you crave that other person, that they are the only thing you can think of. They are the first thought in the morning when you wake and the last before you close your eyes at night. Isn't it wonderful?
2007-11-13 06:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by ≤ Flattery Operated © 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is lust and infatuation that early on in.
You dont start to build the real real deal for a while to come yet.....
Enjoy the infatuation stage - thats all important in building a real pair bond (well for me it is anyway, because I dont just want to grow into being with someone because they are "there" and put themself in your face every day) and it is those memories of one another in the early days that you should be able to draw upon when and if times get boring/tiring/tough later on.
Remember what it is that you first liked/lusted about one another.
This is a very serious answer from someone who has been there
2007-11-13 06:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible if you feel like this. An emotional bond is also connected with the physical. If you have a emotional bond then it makes the physical bond even more wonderful. Good luck!
2007-11-13 06:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is possible to be in love, true love, with a person you have never met. If you have these feelings of love and wanting to do anything for this person, my first advise is to slow down -- second, meet the person, and take is from there.
It is possible to be enamored by someone you are in contact with, have lots in common with, etc. Explore the relationship -- don't run off an get married just yet. : )
2007-11-13 06:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by england562 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
anything is possible...
having been someone who did the internet dating thing and became emotionally attached to someone whom I married after a very short period of time..I have to say that its hard to separate physical attraction. That person can have an awesome spirit but in person the attraction falls flat.
I wouldnt doubt that you could feel love towards them, but true love is a time tested emotion. I wouldnt sell the farm on what you feel right now....give it time to truly see if its that agape that God talks about.
2007-11-13 06:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is possible in four days or even with shorter span of time, it is bcz the attraction phase drags u to feel so.
the emotions makes u feel that u love a person but it takes a while to really know and understand a person and only then u can say that u really love .
2007-11-13 06:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
4 days??!! No. I beleive you must get to know them emotionally, pycholgically, physically, spiritually, and mentally in order to love someone. By not knowing who this person is inside and out, how can you say that you would do anything for them??? If they told you to jump off a 10 story building would you do it?? I don't think so, because you wouldn't understand they're reasoning for it let alone how their mind works! DEFINETLY GIVE IT TIME!!!! DON'T JUMP INTO SOMETHING YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY KNOWLEDGE OF!! That's how some people take advantage of you.
2007-11-13 06:55:24 · answer #11 · answered by Cherise M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋