My husband and I are trying to get pregnant. I already have 2 girls one from a previous relationship (which was a oops) and our second daughter we got pregnant first try. I'm scared about what emotions I will be dealing with if the test comes back negative
2007-11-13 06:38:52 · 8 answers · asked by niknac 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
just keep trying and pray that next month you'll be lucky, ttc#1 for 4 years now
2007-11-13 07:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a little pity party in the bathroom by myself. Shed a few tears, washed my face, and faced the world again. My next step was to talk to my husband. He helped put it back into perspective--we have each other, and just because it didn't work this month doesn't mean it won't work in a future month.
Look at it this way...if you don't succeed at first, you have more time to save money and prepare yourself for pregnancy and a new little baby.
I do hope you don't have to see a negative...best of luck and baby dust!
2007-11-13 14:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by elsie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I tried to always look at the bright side of a negative, I told myself may last time that maybe for Thanksgiving I will be thankful for a BFP if not maybe I will get a BFP for a christmas gift to myself
Hang in there it will happen!
2007-11-13 14:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by A***n G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stay positive. It's obvious that you CAN get pregnant. The second you stop focusing all of your energy on conception, it will happen :) A watched pot never boils.
2007-11-13 16:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cry to my mom. She can always cheer me up. :) Or I seek some support from the ladies on this board. It really helps because they know what you're going through. Good luck!
2007-11-13 14:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by CharChar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard. VERY hard, but you have to always remember that you always got the following month. And your significant other.
Good Luck!!! Stay positive to get your positive!!!!!!
2007-11-13 14:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Tha Blessed One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray. Look to God for strength to deal with it.
2007-11-13 14:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by tfled23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep trying!hopefully it will happen soon.
2007-11-13 14:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋