Just because im 15 means that i dont know what love is so i cant possibly be in love! Right? NO! WRONG! My boyfriend and I plan to raise our child to be a strong and healthy child. We will NOT be told how to live our lives nor will we have limits put on our feelings and emotions. Do you agree with me??? OR AM I "YOUNG AND FALLING FOR PUPPY LOVE"? Crazy people!
2007-11-13 06:32:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
setting up a family, raising a kid at 15 seems just ridiculous
people change so much esp. before 18, 20
the chances that you will love your boyfriend in a few years is so small, against all odds...
you might repent very soon having a child when others of your age enjoy life
I say so, although one of my bros still is with his love of 15/16, and they have 4 kids now, but at least they started when they were 21/22
As for me, I got married to 2 19-year-olds (me being 7,10 yrs older), and got divorced twice
2007-11-13 06:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by woko51 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cause people are stupid. There is no age on love. Yeah maybe you'll look back at when your 15 in the future and be like "Oh, you used to feel different when it came to love back then" but that's not always true. Love has no age limit it doesn't matter how young or old you are it's about the types of feeling you feel toward one, not how silly or puppy love like it may seem. It's all about the feeling in your heart not your age. When someone is so important to you and so dear that you feel incomplete or alone without them, that is one sign of love. Just be yourself and let your heart open up and let that person that make you feel complete come into your life and you show them love. Don't let people tell you that your too young for love, you can be that young or younger and fall into a deeper love than that of what most adults fall into.
Hope this helps.
Lat3r.
2007-11-13 14:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by InFaMy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that there shouldnt be an age limit on falling in love, but however when you are older and think of the relationships you had when you were younger, you will look at them a different way and think ''omg i am so pathetic''
As you get older, you become more mature and the things you can do in a relationship increase eg sex. This puts a different aspect upon you and you believe you can have a stronger and more stable relationship when you are older.
Ignore what other people think, at the end of the day it is your emotions and feelings you have a right to do what you want. Dont worry and carry on your relationship as normal. Good luck xx
2007-11-13 14:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa..xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, you can be in love at 15, the problem is, the self that you are at 15 ends up being different then who you are at...even 21. I was in love at 15, and lost my virginity to a guy I loved very much. We were together 6 years after that, but as I grew I realized we just weren't right for each other. It was more than just the oh, he's annoying type of thing.....we weren't interested in the same things and I couldn't hold a decent conversation with him just because he just wasn't interested in knowing about the world around him.
You are in love, and I see you have a child, which makes the growing up process even faster, and since you seem to be the head strong type, you will just have to learn about all of this for yourself
2007-11-13 14:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by PrincessJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to disgree that 15 year olds know what love is. I'm not saying there are not exceptions, but IN GENERAL 15 year olds do not have the maturity level to truly know what love is. The fact that you sound like you are throwing a temper tantrum online with this post shows that you have alot of growing up to do. The fact that you say you will not be told how to live your life also shows in immaturity most teenagers have. In time you will learn to listen to peoples advice. It doesn't mean you have to follow it, but people who have walked your path before you have a different perspective. Listen to what your parents are telling you. It can only help you. If you truly love each other, it won't matter in time. But putting your foot down and acting like a child shows you have alot to learn. But remember you are only 15. You have alot of time ahead of you.
That being said, it doesn't mean you don't care deeply for each other and that is may grow into a deep, lifelong love in time. And no matter what happens, that child deserves to be loved and nurtured by both it's parents. That child needs to come first and you will both have to make great sacrifices for it. Continue your education. Work to support that child and realize the sacrifices your parents have to make because of the choices you made to have a child at your age.
2007-11-13 14:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Meghan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 14 and found my first love. I loved that girl like crazy and no one could tell me any different. If you know it in your heart that you love each other than who can tell you any different. I am not sure if your pregnant now(My boyfriend and I plan to raise our child to be a strong and healthy child) but if you are- I wish you the best of luck and stay strong and make sure your child is well taken care of
2007-11-13 14:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to have a child?? well i am 21 and i got pregnate at the age of 17 the father of the baby and I were dating sence i was 16 and everyone did not know what to think but we was in love and we had our child i was still 17 and i was out of school but it was still hard and well i am married now with my daughter that is 2 1/2 yrs old and i have a son that is 9months old and YES i married my love we have two beautiful babys and we have our own house that we bought togehter i am a stay at home mom and he works full time. so just hang in there and it will all work out! but some advise listen to your parents, or your elders i promise you it may sound crazy now but in the future it will all make sence. No one can change your heart!!
2007-11-13 14:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are right, there is no age limit. I have seen some pretty immature people at the age of 30 and 40 and even 50 you cant keep a relationship or marriage together. Then i have seen people who hve been together since they have been in their teenage years. Its all that matter of maturity. I got married at age 18, and have been married almost 6 years, and i have seen people who were way older then me and their marriages not even last a year, dont let anyone tell you how to live your life. Just stay in school and you guys will be fine.
2007-11-13 14:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mary L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What child? You're not pregnant are you???
Getting pregnant at 15 is crazy. You are still a child yourself. If you want to have no sleep, no energy and no money, have a child! Believe me, it is very difficult raising a child. You'll be glad if you wait.
Don't ruin your life to prove a point to your parents. Britney Spears is going on the same way and she's made a mess of her life.
Relax and take your time, love is not a race.
2007-11-13 14:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can love, but there's a huge difference between love and bringing up a baby. You might love him now, but you'll grow a lot physically and emotionally in the next few years and a child bringing up a child is never a good idea.
2007-11-13 14:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋