Okay this confuses me,
i dont understand it i have done research on it
b.c one of my friends wants to kill herself over
a guy and i dont know what to tell her
i dont know what to say. ):
she calls me crying and all i can do is stop her at
the time, but one of these days i might not answer the
phone, missed her call or somthing and she goes
threw with it.
what do i do then?
asjdfldjflksjd helpppp please.
2007-11-13 06:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by Breezy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think that people commit suicide because they feel that their life is hopeless. Perhaps there are other reasons. I am of the opinion that life is not always fantastic but it is also not always horrible so you just have to wait until things get better again.
Your friend needs to seek help and you can help her by telling her parents or her siblings, referring her to a therapist and getting her the number of the suicide hotline. There's only so much that you can do for her and getting her connected with someone who can help her will do her more good than calling you for help.
2007-11-13 06:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Susan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she feels such pain to want to resort to suicide. It sounds like there is more to it then over a guy. A guy is just an excuse I think. She needs to sort out her emotions and figure out what is causing her do that. I wish you luck and I hope she doesn't do it because life really does get better and better the older you get. When you are older you happen to find true love most of the time and are able to accomplish life changing goals it's exciting!!!
2007-11-13 14:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people cannot see a way out of their predicament and just don't feel the energy to deal with it. There are other people who are not really meaning to kill themselves. They hope they will be found before they die and get help. People will do this because they don't know how to say they need help. Others do it because they want others to feel bad about what they said or did. You cannot control someone elses behavior. If she does kill herself. It isn't your fault.
2007-11-17 12:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Tell her to think of her Mom and how she would feel to hear her baby is dead. Sounds like you have been a good friend, but this girl needs the help of a professional. I think you should urge her to get it, she might be mad at first but she will eventually understand and be greatful.
2007-11-13 15:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are overstressed. They may be outkasts, or in debt, etc.... They do it, because they think it's a way out to whay they are suffering. They think it's painless, but it's painful to the family members who have to suffer their loss. Be with her 24/7. Call 1800-SUICIDE (1800 - 784 - 2433), and tell em ur situation.
2007-11-13 14:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People commit suicide because of emotional or financial problems in their life.Try to remind your friend of all the people that will miss her if she kills herself and that there are plenty more guys in the world.
2007-11-13 14:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by afshdyhaew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young people who commit suicide have not lived enough to appreciate life and to know what is really important.
2007-11-13 14:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Susas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if she is trying to call you that's a good sign that she doesn't want to go thru with it she is looking for a shoulder to cry on someone who might understand what she is going thru
it is good that you are that someone she can get a understanding ear and possible help with the situation
2007-11-13 14:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by hillbillly15902 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking of committing suicide
2007-11-13 21:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People usually commit suicide when they feel hopeless or the situation seems hopeless.
2007-11-13 16:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋