im about 6 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend keeps telling me to get an abortion. i kinda want him to just leave me alone to make it easier since he dont want it. what should i do or tell him? and am i right for wanting him to leave me alone?
2007-11-13 05:07:49 · 15 answers · asked by mel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it's your body and your baby... telling him to just go might be whats best for you and your baby since it sounds like hes causing you stress... your not wrong for wanting him to leave you alone if he doesnt want to be a part of the babies life its his loss not yours.... just tell him that its your baby too and you want to keep it, if he wants to be part in the babies life than great but if he doesn't than he needs to go because your keeping your baby and you dont need the negativity around you at a time like this.
2007-11-13 05:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Okay Honey, Here is thing, has he told you why he would like you to do that? Is it just because he is scared and doesn't now what to expect? Which is normal, but I am so glad that you are women enough to stand your ground and keep this wonderful present that God has gave you. If God has brought you to it he WILL bring you thru it and God will provide the extra money to take care of this child, I promise. I was so scared once I found out that I pregnant with my first child, I was so scared that I wouldn't be able to provided all the things that this baby would need and let me tell you everything has worked out and i look back at the situation and I can't belive how far I have came and all the blessings this child has brought into my life. Keep strong and your faith will carry you thru the good and the bad times. Many Blessings and Congrads on your beautiful blessing growing within you. And please remember that everything has happen for a reason and just remember one thing Has God let you down yet? No he hasn't so why would he start now!!! You just tell your boyfriend eighter he can start supporting you and this baby or he just leave, that you are also scared and don't know what to do but you didn't plan or just set out to get pregnant out of no where but it has happen and the baby is on the way and that you want him to be apart of your life and the baby but killing another person is out of the question, explain to him that at 6 weeks your baby is already starting to form and it does have a heart so there fore it is a living person, and could you honestly live the rest of your life on a what if.... Loves......
2007-11-13 05:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by kelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f he doesn't have the decency to respect your total autonomy on the subject of abortion, then you don't need him around. Also, if he tells you that everything between you to will be fine if you just have an abortion, do not believe him.. If you want an abortion that is fine, but if you only do it for him, you will always harbor resentment toward him and you will never be the same as before.
2007-11-13 05:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Blake's mommy!!!♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your baby too he has no right to bully you into killing your child I would tell him to GET LOST I had a boyfriend in highschool and the condom broke once and he said to me if I got pregnant we would "take care of it" in other words get an abortion I said no way and see ya right there I didnt want to be with a guy who thought it was okay to kill a baby!!
Have you talked to him about how you feel??? If that doesnt work then follow your heart!
Best wishes to you!!!
2007-11-13 05:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 6 weeks pregnant. the guy that i am pregnant by actually drove me to the abortion clinic last friday - but i have been going to the GYN - i have had 2 ultrasounds, lab work - and my first prenatal appointment is next week. . . i have been taking my prenatal vitamins.
i haven't heard from him since he drove me there (and I didn't get an abortion) . . . and before that - i didn't hear from him since i told him that i was pregnant.
it is gone be a long lonely pregnancy for me . . . i am glad he went away & left me alone - he just makes me upset & emotional when we do have contact.
it is gonna be hard - do nothing... don't call. don't do anything.
2007-11-13 13:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Kelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to leave you alone. If you want to keep the baby, tell him that. If he can't agree with it, you don't need him! There is no reason to have anybody negative in your life while you go through such a beautiful time. Best of luck!
2007-11-13 05:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Teresa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you're right for wanting him to leave you alone.
He made that baby, and so did you, that baby has the right to live, and have the right to give birth to it. You break it off with him and tell him you'll talk to him about it if you keep his child and need child support.
He just doesnt want to be responsible for the life he created.
2007-11-13 05:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to Fu** off. It's your body your decision. Make sure though you make it clear as day what role if any he will have. This is a lil life inside you...don't take it lightly when someone tells you just to get rid of it like if it were trash. Your baby only has you to speak for him or her. GOOD LUCK!
2007-11-13 05:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Noah's Mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its your choice to have an abortion or not he has nothing to do with it. If you must leaving him could bring another life into the world.
2007-11-13 05:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by h0neybee1000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont get an abortion.. if your boyfriend doesnt want the baby fine, but you should definitely keep your baby and abort your boyfriend.
2007-11-13 05:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by gabsters 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋