...on purpose...and lived with the regret???
2007-11-13 04:56:22 · 34 answers · asked by Francesca 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well I have pushed some people away, I felt regret...until I realized it was best for me...even though it hurt.
2007-11-13 05:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by bodacious baby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I have never regretted ending a relationship, avoiding someone or deciding not to pursue an arrangement. Why would I?
Most people only wonder what they missed and envision some possibility from the past when unhappy in the present. This idea that daydreaming about an old lover never married is an illusion at best. It never happened. People fall in love with the fantasy out of dissatisfaction with the present.
Maybe their present relationships aren't pleasing them. It's natural to look for an outlet to escape in this situation and it makes sense. The grass is greener on the other side sort of thing and in comparision to what one has. It's built up in the mind. A psychological reaction to not having what one wants and not having the maturity to fix the situation. It requires a sense of entitlement to pursue it.
The only exception: if he really had a great relationship he messed up and is truly sorry. He may be available after another relationship comes to an end and they want to pick up where they left off by mutual agreement.
2007-11-13 05:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep I sure have, but after several years of beating myself up over it I realized that it is what it is and you have to accept it and move on. Sometimes we make choices with our heart, and sometimes with our minds, but either way it was a choice you made so there is no reason to live with regret. You did what you did for a reason and although that reason does not seem so clear now it doesn't mean it did not exist. I say this from my heart because I have been there and would not wish the feeling of constant regret on anyone.
2007-11-13 05:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mari R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have done it more than once the nice ones are the ones i mostly do it to if your talking about a boyfriend or girlfriend, first of all if you did it you did it for a reason. when you can honestly answer why you did it then maybe the regret will fad away but for what ever reason you can't beat yourself up over it you have to face it and move on with life cause honey theres alot in life you will regret doing but with all things it shall pass
2007-11-13 05:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by joyce_i68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup, yup! When I met my ex-husband, I was really mean to him and pushed him away (actually left him on the other side of the railing!). Unfortunately, that only made him want me more, ended up married 10 years and finally divorced a few years back. Wish I never met him! Worst mistake of my life! Regret it every sickening day...
2007-11-13 05:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by gmoney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many, many times. I never regretted it, because I never got close to anyone that mattered to me. Or, so I thought at the time. Now, as I look back, I realize how stupid I was to do that, that those people would have been good to have in my life now. But at the time, you don't really know who your really going to miss. I would have never guessed back then that the ones I shouldn't have pushed away were who they were. At all. Hindsights 20/20.
2007-11-13 05:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lady M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I pushed away an ex bf. I do regret it now, but we are finally friends so I feel better about it.
2007-11-13 04:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ambi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, sadly I have and lived with regret every day.
Fortunately I had another chance and grabbed it. I am one happy person. If you have the chance to try again take it. At least you will know if the relationship will work or not.
2007-11-13 05:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by litl m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I pushed him away by way of fact he wasn't able to feeling an analogous love I had for him. He wasn't gay. you already know, even now, 2 and a a million/2 years later, it hurts. nicely, now it in simple terms form of sucks. LOL He replaced into the chum i wanted. He replaced into the only individual who made me comprehend that definite, I do choose friendship. He confirmed me what it replaced into. For that on my own, he will continuously have a place in my coronary heart. i haven't spoken to him lots recently. Why? by way of fact i think of i'm actually shifting on and that i'm desperately petrified of going returned to the way it replaced into in the initiating. I doubt it particularly is going to ensue, by way of fact i've got observed that he's replaced. i prefer to declare, he's putting with a "no longer so sturdy crowd". No drugs/unlawful stuff, in easy terms a gaggle of immature idiots and, nicely, he isn't an analogous Craig I knew my senior year of high school. Pushing him away replaced into very complicated yet needed in maximum of diverse techniques.
2016-12-08 20:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by luci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, loadsssssssss n loads of times.. regretted it only some of the time... i think i did it to test peoples love.
2007-11-13 05:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋