My fiance' left me last night... he knows that i am pregnant, he was thrilled when we found out. He left because he said that he was tired of the bullshit! But the things he says and does to me makes me so mad! He said that he tried and tried, hes one of those that think they do no wrong (no matter what) But i cant just let him go like this! I want to talk to him! Should i call him or wait for him to call me?
2007-11-13 04:40:39 · 13 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
just let him go, if he is going to walk out on you in your times of need what is he good for.
you can do better
2007-11-13 04:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by scott A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a sign that you could be pregnant, its probably too soon to find out if u are. Wait 3 days and take another pregnancy test.
2016-05-22 23:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by liliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be panicking about the responsibility, I would try to contact him one last time and give him and you a chance to work things out. If he doesn't want to try, or continues to treat you bad and want to walk away then I would stop trying to talk to him and let him make all the next moves. Sometimes they need to see you aren't going to sit there and beg him to come back before they realize what they want. If he doesn't contact you then it is his loss, and I would definitely go through the court systems to get child support and stuff worked out.
2007-11-13 04:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by tynker_belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, what is the sense in chasing someone who doesnt want to be there, it will only add to the stress of living... and you are pregnant stress is not so great foryou or the baby. Give him his time and space, he may decide that he was wrong and come back, but i fhe doesnt, just make sur eyou send him (mail him) regular updates about the baby, and nvite him to be a part.. try being his friend, not a bitter ex.
2007-11-13 04:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kim B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go. You will be better off on your own. Why would you want to be with someone who cares so little for you and the baby? Look into state and govenment programs for single mothers. Start a case with the child support enforcement division in your state as soon as the baby is born. Trust me here, I've been in self defeating relationships. Learn to stand on your own two feet.
2007-11-13 04:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say u call him i mean think about it do u think he will get mad at u because of u telling him u are preg? Also he knows about it just talk to him about it and don't be crazy about it just talk like a normal thing u would say 2 him.
2007-11-13 04:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to call him and situate stuff. He needs to grow up. Keep in mind hes having a lot of mixed emotions right now but I know what your going through I am in the same situation but my bf doesnt break up with me. He just leaves the house like a dumb *** but where you are prego your boyfrined needs to be more understanding. You dont need the stress.
2007-11-13 04:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait to talk to him when the baby is born and you sue him for child support. Don't let him get away with just walking out and thinking that he is off scott-free. That's not how it happens. If he challenges the paternity, which most cowards do, the court will make HIM pay for the test.
2007-11-13 04:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
just wait...he will cool off and come back soon enough. if you make the first move you might just upset yourself more if he is not ready to talk to you yet. he made the decision to leave so the ball is in his court. just try not to worry too much, men tend to be affected by pregnancy hormones too!
2007-11-13 04:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's probably just freaking out. Guys tend to do this. Give him a little time and see if he calls, if not call him!
2007-11-13 04:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋