For instance, suppose that you are female and you are attracted to both men and women. You decide to only date men because you don't want to go through all the drama and stress of coming out of the closet. You live as a straight woman and are capable of having a healthy, loving, long-term sexual relationship with a man. You still find some women attractive but you keep the feelings to yourself. Are you still bisexual?
2007-11-13 04:13:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, I know this sounds like a variation on the "If a tree falls in the forest and no one hears it, does it still make a sound?" question.
2007-11-13 04:14:22 · update #1
BTW, I'm married to a wonderful man and I am happy with the decision I made.
2007-11-13 04:49:04 · update #2
Yes, you would be considered a non-practicing bisexual.
Anyone can be celibate, gay or straight. But that doesn't mean that they're not oriented the way they are.
2007-11-13 04:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That describes me almost exactly, except I'm a guy.
I have no real desire to date a man, or go through all the drama and sh*t.
But yeah, I do find some men attractive, but in terms of a long-term relationship or dating...no thanks.
Anyone who steps up and says that you're not a *real* bisexual is just being intolerant, something we should avoid.
2007-11-13 04:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by tryandfindus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would fall into the category you describe. I've never dated a woman and want to spend my life with a man. But I still consider myself bisexual because I'm still attracted to both sexes.
2007-11-13 04:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
U again :D! U put ur question in a more easier way this time for me. I think being bisexual is being emotionally AND sexually attracted to both people. Your a girl, I see, and if this question is for your self, and you are emotionally attracted to other chicks, then you are probably bi. And if you are, dont freak out.
2016-05-22 23:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter?
I mean, most heterosexuals can be attracted to people of the opposite sex that they aren't married to. That doesn't make them single. You are attracted to who you are attracted to. If you are married and believe in monogamy, then it really doesn't matter if you are attracted to other men or women. You aren't going to act on it. Why do we need a label for that?
2007-11-13 05:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i had a gf for 4years and after we broke up i started dating guys again. I wouldnt go back to dating girls just love taking them to bed!! but i still class myself as bisexual. Your Still bi if your not open about it. Its the same as finding another guy atttractive and keeping it to yourself.
Loving the best of both worlds!!!
2007-11-13 05:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife is bisexual. She is attracted to men and women, but loves only me. She does indulge in friends with benefits sex with a few other bi women we know. To us it is not cheating, we are both aware, and both there. And the sex afterwords is phenomenal. She is who she is.
2007-11-13 05:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes youre still bisexual as long as you are sexually attracted to both sexes. it doesnt matter if its 50/50 or 70/30. it doesnt matter who you are with at the time. and mistress can get on top of me anytime.
2007-11-13 04:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I guess so right? I've only dated guys but I've been attracted to some ladies. I just haven't done anything with any. Well this one time at band camp I .........................
2007-11-13 04:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yea i guess
actually i think the correct term would be "bicurious"
bisexual would be if u already experimented with the same sex and liked it.
2007-11-13 04:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋