Telling the father?

Question

Im 15, young i know but what are we gonna do about it. Anyway, my boyfriend is almost 17 and he is the love of my life! But hes really sensetive and i dont want to upset him when i tell him that hes gonna be a daddy. So I need some help telling him....AND FAST! Thanks! I appriciate it! ♥♥Em♥♥

Answer 1

just tell him. i got pregnant at 15 also. you might end up being a single mother but oh well you will live. being a teenage parent isn't all bad. i personal love every minute of it. well if you need help or anything you can message me. good luck

Answer 2

Regardless on what you tell him, I'm sorry to say that he will soon be your ex-boyfriend and you will be a single mom. Most boys (and I do mean boys, not men) at that age want a young honey with which to do the deed. When he finds out, he will run for the border. I agree with other here that you need to worry more about who is growing inside you, than what your boyfriend will think or do. Also, you need to tell your parents. You can't hide your pregnancy forever and sooner or later it will show. They will know something is up. I would first tell your parents, then tell him.

Answer 3

Upsetting him should be the least of your worries right now sweetie!

Just come right out and tell him-in person, when the two of you are alone. There's no beating around the bush on something as important as this. If he gets upset, he's just gonna have to get over it. It's time both of you did a lot of growing up!

And make sure you tell your parents. You'd be surprised how helpful they can be!

Good Luck!

Answer 4

Im 15 and my unborn babys dad is 15 aswell. Trust me when i say sit him in a room and lock the door, keep the key with you. My ex bf wants nothing to do with the child. Just wait until you have your 1st scan and show him the pick, his face will probably go white and sorry, it's about a 90% chance that your going to end up a single mum. Good luck darlin x

Answer 5

You have a lot more to worry about right now than the fact that your boyfriend is going to be upset. Just tell him straight out and it is time for him to man up. Then you need to talk to your parents. You need some adults to help you right now.

Answer 6

Ok, first of all you need to work out what you're going to do, let alone tell the father. You need to work out whether: 1) Keep, 2) abort or 3) get it adopted. When you've worked this out, you can make a plan. For example, if you're going to keep it and raise it together as a couple, your boyfriend needs to leave school and get a job. He needs to start getting money together to give to you for the baby. You need to also get some money to put the baby in child care whilst you get your education. Believe me, you'll appreciate you did when you're older and looking back on this. You need to sit your boyfriend down and say, "There's something I need to tell you. I'm pregnant." He will most likely either completely freak or cry. You need to ask him what's going to happen with regard to him either being with you or leaveing you. When you're sure of this, you need to tell your parent's. After you've told them, I suggest you leave the house for a day or two to let them calm down. When you return, you need to tell them your plan for the future and make sure your boyfriend is there too. Let them see you two are a mature couple who have a plan and are planning to stay together. All of this will the hardest part so as soon as you've got that over with, you can look foreward to planning for the future. The future isn't going to be easy but you can make it through and still get a career. Look at Demi Moore - she was pregnant at fifteen and still managed an acting career. Good luck to you =)

Answer 7

ok cause i am 20 i cant lecture you, so i am gonna tell you that first you guys makes mistake, and second dont lean all the burden onto him, you guys are so fu(kin young, and last question do you guys really think you can have BABY now??
think about your future, his future, if he doesnt want, what you can do?
be single mother, thats it, thats the answer??

i think you should talk to your parents, cos gal i tell you this that parents help more then anyone in the whole wide world, what ever they are!!

so good luck!! i'll pray for you dear..

Answer 8

just ask him to come over show him the test if you still have it and be like hey im pregnant im keeping the baby and i want you to be a major part of his/ her life...and explain what you want him to do and what you think you need to do
don't be surprised if he gets mad and/ or crys
but just tell him you can't hide it
after you tell him and he leaves tell your parents even if you have to write them a note and get your butt to the Dr. ASAP!
and also make sure he tells his parents


yes you are young but you can do it! just keep your head up and realize this isn't the end of your life its just a new start!

Answer 9

I think you better worry about your Dad then you can worry about your boyfriend. Since your Dad will most likely be sharing the bills with his Dad....

Answer 10

just come out and tell him. take it from there. one step at a time. it'll be hard but where there's a will there's away