are there any circumstances wherein you consider cheating is ok?

Answer 1

If I were to live my life by what is popular, I would not be able to sleep at night because of a guilty conscience. No, marriage is a commitment made before God. I am very serious about this! I pray that cheating never even comes into my mind. I love my husband dearly and would not dream of doing this to him under any circumstance. However, I expect the same loyalty from him. I know I am a bit old fashioned for these times, but I believe in marriage and honor. I do try to live by these principles.

Answer 2

I have been in circumstances where all around me looked unfair.

Take answering questions. If I answer a question too soon, people go behind me and thumb me down in droves. They do that to win the tiebreakers. It is not cheating because Yahoo stands behind the idea that thumbing people down is expressing your opinion.

I have also been in fights where I am outnumbered five to one and had to use whatever was available just to keep from getting killed. I don't consider that cheating when the stakes are life and death.

As for relationships, I don't abide with people forming a momogomous relationship and then sleeping around. That is cheating.

So what have we learned?

It is all in the circumstances and therefore I must say yes, no and maybe it isn't as it seems. I leave it to the judgment of those wiser than me to figure out if there should be some categorical imperative concerning cheating or not.

I just take it as I see it.

Answer 3

No, if you are going to cheat then you should leave your commited relationship. Period. You may have good reasons to leave but to give yourself an excuse to cheat is avoiding the real problem at hand, it's a diversion that doesn't solve anything and will just hurt you and your partner in the long run, that's why there is communication, too bad not many people use this tool but go straight forward to cheating and then think afterwards.

Answer 4

If anyone ever feels compelled to cheat - then they need to just leave.

But in the context of my own relationship - we don't consider having sex with another person as cheating. We have an open relationship.

Everyone isn't expected to understand it - but it works for us..

Answer 5

YES I think sometimes some circumstances make you have to cheat! anyway I believe a happy mommy is a happy everybody else so if I am cheating and happy I will be in a better mood

Answer 6

no, it's wrong.

it's another thing if both of the parties agree to bring in someone else into the bedroom. but, it's important to keep the bedroom activities and their relationship separate. it's a very tricky situation that must be handled with care. i don't consider this cheating though.

Answer 7

My situation, which has my fiance and i separated for now, and my physical need for sensual pleasure, allows me to do whoever I want as long as I tell my fiance about them. She understands, and she has only been with one person: me. She refuses to be with everyone else. Do you know how lucky I am to have found a girl like that?

Answer 8

i fully agree with marie, however, if in a bad situation where my husband did something exremely terrible to me, like, had cam sex with someone on the net for example...it would make me re-evaluate my loyalty. i still wouldnt cheat, but i would stop restricting myself from getting to know other men, like you should do in a loyal marraige. i would try to get to know other men, just in case my husband doesnt change, it would make it easier to leave him that way, instead of being the one sitting there getting played for a fool, giving him chance after chance and making yourself feel pathetic.

Answer 9

No.

Unless you have prior permission and are in an open relationship....but then it's not considered cheating anyways.

Answer 10

Is it true that only "the other person" is cheating on us, whereas we just have good excuses for the very same thing?