my freind thinks she pregnet she 15 and the guy is 16 or 17 she doesnt remember.she doesnt want to take a test

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plus she said she has had backpain, her feet hurt, and sh gained alot of weight in the past two weeks, she was really sick after it happened too.she is scared about what to do. they guy wants her to have the baby but she is to young and she want to give the baby a good life not a messed up one.She was really stupid she said it was her 1st time and and they didnt use a condom. thanks for your help we both appreciate it

Answer 1

This is why children shouldn't have sex.

Answer 2

She doesn't have to take a test.....she can just be stressed out for the next 9 months and then when the baby comes out she'll know for sure.


Seriously. just go over to dollar tree or what ever store you have like that in your area and get a test. she can take it in private and then she'll now. She might not even be pregnant.

you didn't mention morning sickness, sore boobs, unreasonable anger with everyone in her path. These are better indicators than sore feet and back. I agree that those are probably from weight gain. Which you don't get much of in the first 6 wks of pregnancy.

stress can make you late, or if you dwell on thoughts of pregnancy you can give yourself a hysterical pregnancy complete with symptoms.

Just take a test and know for sure.

If she is, tell her to trust her instincts and give the baby up for adoption. True love for your child means doing what's best for it. Sounds like she's already smart enough to know that much.
As for the guy who got her that way. Does he plan to provide everything for this baby that he want's her to keep? Does he plan to stick around and be the kind of father the baby will really need? The kind that will teach him not to go out and get 15 yr. old girls pg?

Or will he flake out when he finds out what a hard choice has been made? Will he lose it and start beating them when it's 3 in the morning, the baaby's been screaming for and hour, and he hasn't slept good for a month?

Think it through!!!

Answer 3

The only way she is going to find out if she is pregnant is to take a test...and if she doesnt want the child....but wants the baby to have a good life is to have the baby and then do adoption there are tons of people out there that cant have children....but that decision is completely up to you...good luck

Answer 4

first things first TAKE A TEST!!!! there is no point stressing over something that may not even be! I can't say she was stupid for not using anything but she did use poor judgment. She should go to the local planed parenthood clinic or free clinic and get tested and go from there. while she's there she should probably check on getting on some sort of control.

Answer 5

Her feet and back may be hurting from the extra weight she's gained. Usually back and feet pains don't occur until later in pregnancy. She's going to have to take a test to find out. =)

Answer 6

If she thinks she is pregnant then she really needs to take a test. She could be pregnant - but she could also just be really stressed out about the whole thing and that's what's making her body act goofy.

Answer 7

Tell her to wait 9 months she'll find out for sure. if no baby then shes not pregnant.

Answer 8

well - she could take a test . . . find out that it is negative and be off the hook.

however, at somepoint she is going to have to find out if she's pregnant. . . or not.

Answer 9

if she is old enough to have sex, she should be old enough to take a test. it doesn't even take as long as a math test. obviously you are concerned for her, be there with her and for her.