should i forgive or should i leave, we have a child together. but what really sacres me is that he pull a knife on me and put to my face he says he 's sorry and he wouldnt her me, he said he let his jealousy take over him.
2007-11-13 02:03:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try Relate together. He needs help.
2007-11-13 02:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would leave him right away.. If he does it once, and you let it slide, it's going to happen again! I would take your kid and leave.. Just because you have a child together doesn't mean you have to be with him.. When it comes to your own personal safety and the safety of your child, you just have to forget about all of the feelings that were once there. I mean, do you really want to invest more years of your life and possibly more kids to this situation? I would leave before it gets even harder. I know that it might be extremely hard to get up and leave but it's not worth living in fear every time you argue that he might do it again! No woman deserves that, no matter what his excuse is. Of course he's not going to admit that what he was doing was just plain wrong. Men are full of all kinds of excuses when it comes to saving thierselves.. Please leave or consider counseling.. Talk to some relatives and people who know you best and your situation. But please don't let him do that anymore to you or your child!
2007-11-13 02:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive, but don't forget. Since you have a child together I would try to make things work. Pulling a knife on someone you supposedly love is not only wrong, but he could have seriously hurt you or even killed you. He needs to seek therapy for his anger, and if he refuses, then you should consider other options.
2007-11-13 02:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
From my experience, once its happened once it will happen again. Why should you live in fear of when it might happen again, you deserve better than that. If nothing else you owe it to your child to bring them up in a safe and loving environment where they won't think that violence is normal.
Believe me, I know it's easier said than done, but you can do it. Contact your local council to see what help they can offer if you're unable to make the break by yourself, and talk to your family and friends. That was one of my biggest regrets, if I'd talked to people earlier on the violence wouldn't have lasted so long for me.
2007-11-13 02:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha sister why should you leave he's the one that hit you best way is tell him you want him to move out and deal with this and you need the space to think this over i'm a man i was in an abusive relationship she cut me with a knife i ran and ran for good you must think of you and your child he must leave seek help and prove to you and your child he's worthy of you both good luck
2007-11-14 07:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by william B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once to often think of your child, if he does pull a knife you may not be so lucky, and remeber if anything happens to you, your child he or she will be brought up by a person full of jealousy.Is he jealous of your child? My advice get out now there are plenty of people to help!!!
2007-11-13 02:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by eileen w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See that thing at the front of your house - it's called a DOOR - pack and walk through it - it didn't happen this time but you know it is a possibility in the future - you are just asking us to confirm.
ANY man that hits (or threatens or intimidates) a woman is a low life scumbag coward - move on and find someone better suited to you.
2007-11-13 02:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by jamand 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i firmly believe that any man who goes to those lengths is not worth giving the time of day to,just remember when his jealousy takes over him next time you could realy get hurt,and so could your baby,either make a total break or make him do something about the jealous rages as there will be more,and dont take him back till hes sorted it.
2007-11-13 06:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by fozz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to leave him right now. whatever you do, do not stay with this man, because you'll only end up suffering and your child will be put through hell aswell. if you stay with him, you'll only regret it for the rest of your life. just because he's sorry, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you again.
2007-11-13 02:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking like that you are scared so my advice would be to get out now while you can. Don't ever let anyone raise their hands to you or for them to make you think that it will never happen again.
2007-11-13 02:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by **** 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋