I used to love my single life and then i met a man and fell in love with him. I've just broke up with him because i have finally realised that he is controlling and jealous. I dont know what to do with myself now. Im not sure if the single life of one night stands suits me anymore. But dont know if getting into another relationship would be too soon. What do you think i should do?
2007-11-13 01:31:05 · 28 answers · asked by Big Boobs McGee 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i went for the one night stand thing. i ended up meeting some one having what i thought was a one night stand and he called me the next day we were married a couple months later and still are 4 years later! we now have a house and a baby. things aren't always as they seem.
2007-11-13 01:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun you can only do what feels right for you! I am single after getting out of an abusive relationship. Now I just have fun and go with what suits me at the time. May be I will get into another relationship if the right guy comes along.... but at the moment I am not stressing hun!
2007-11-13 03:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Maria S © 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night stands will only leave you feeling used and empty. IF you just broke up with someone. Take some time for your self. Let yourself heel from the relationship. Figure out what you want out of life, out of a man, then after a period of time, go out have fun then maybe you will meet the right guy. But don't rush into anything.
2007-11-13 01:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by iceprincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe NOT just a ton of one-nighters but do play the field.
Don't jump into a relationship right away. Pull back and just be capricious, have some fun and see what is out there.
Kiss a few frogs and don't worry about finding a prince
2007-11-13 01:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One nighters are no fun anymore after you realize that relationships are wonderful. Sorry it didn't work out for you and your man. Don't go back to the wild life. People get hurt and feelings tend to get in the way. Take some time to date before you choose your next guy.
2007-11-13 01:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long term relationship will be much better and satisfying in the long run. Spend too long single and having one night stands and one day you'll realise how much time you've wasted. the trick is to find the right person to be with, once you've done that the rest is easier.
2007-11-13 01:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as everyone else says really, take time for yourself - hell you deserve it right? If things develop with a bloke then go with the flow, if not - you've lost nothing. I wasn't looking for a relationship when I met my partner - that was nearly 3 years ago and we are getting married next year! The best things have a way of finding you without you realising!!!!
Don't rush into anything and pamper yourself.
Good luck x
2007-11-13 01:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by dalski72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not take some time out to be completely single - no guys whatsoever, and just concentrate on having fun with your friends and family, and/or immerse yourself in something you really like doing. Give yourself a couple of weeks/a month etc., and see how you feel about things then.
2007-11-13 01:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kirsty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely go with a relationship. I find that in the long run, relationships are MUCH more fun. If you have one long relationship, you will be quite a bit happier than if you constantly have "one night stands." Good luck!
2007-11-13 01:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rain? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not get into a relationship straight away. I came out of a relationship a couple of months ago and got into another with my ex before that. Big mistake. I needed space and I wasn't getting any. So I got rid of her too and love doing whatever I want with who I want.
2007-11-13 01:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by ross x 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋