do you think its ok to live together b4 your married or be married then live together? im still in hs and with baby on way and we both are planning on getting married when i graduate this year 08 no its not b,c the baby either its cause us so do you agree on living togehter first and see how it goes. cuz his mom said i can move in with them when i graduate but i dont want ot i want my own place.
2007-11-13 01:05:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should try living together because its almost like marriage so just try living together after high school so ya...!! I mean even if me and you get our own place and then when the boys grow up to be men then they can move in with us as well!
2007-11-14 00:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by lil_ms_attitude122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a good idea to live together before you get married. There is a lot you can learn about a person by living with them. By living together before getting married you learn all of their weird habits and good ones also. Make sure you live together the way you would if you were married (finance wise) and not like roommates. It is a different situation.
If you do well together then I think you have a good start on a married life.
2007-11-13 09:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think your making a lot of big decisions for someone so young. But back to your question, I think that it is up to the you, bc its different strokes for different folks. Meaning that is a personal opinion. I mean me personally, I didn't believe in living together prior to marriage but I did it, and it worked out fine. So I go both ways on that. But if I may I'd like to suggest marriage counseling. It really helps. It covers almost every aspect of marriage, their are so many things that we assume and never really talk about that make a huge difference.(and we forget to talk about too)
2007-11-13 09:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can afford it I would get your own place. if getting your own place is going to be tough financially I would say live with the folks for awhile and save up some money. Money is such a HUGE stress in relationships and it doesn't sound like you need anymore stress right now. It's fine if you need help at first, be thankful that someone is willing to help.
2007-11-13 09:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with the other person first, especially as you so young. I see so many stories of people on here who didn't live together prior to marriage and then realised their mistake within weeks of the wedding.
2007-11-13 14:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i think it's a personal choice and what works the best for everyone involved!
2007-11-13 09:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your own place...
2007-11-13 09:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋