Why is it that all boys do is pay attention to the talkative, loud girls and don't take the time or the energy to get to know the shy ones? Im quite shy at school, but Im not that hard on the eyes, lots of people say Im pretty. I do get the sense as well that theyre almost afriad of me. I like my shy (mysterious) personality and I dont want that to change toooo much but at the same time I want to change the boys perspective of me so they feel more comfortable around me! PLease Help!
2007-11-13 00:56:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What types of guys are you looking for? "Loud" guys like loud girls. It's just the way it happens. I happen to be a shy guy. It doesn't matter to me whether a girl is shy or confident.
You should try to let the guy know you like him. Drop some hints. You can't be too mysterious with guys. We don't get it.
2007-11-13 13:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by j+j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a really shy guy, and I don't like the loud, talkative girls trying to get attention. You sound a lot like me, I have a shy, some what mysterious personality as well, and other girls tend to stay away from me. But being shy isn't a bad thing, and from what I've observed, shy guys like shy girls, and so it might take a while for another shy guy to get the courage to talk with you. I still don't have the courage to do it, so don't feel bad, it'll just take some more time to accomplish.
2007-11-13 04:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
well confidence is attractive u can be the most prettiest girl in the school but someone who is more confident then you will get all the attention i am a very shy person but as soon as someone gives me a chance i am a lot of fun just like I'm shore u are the only thing I've learned from school is that u just simple need to take every opportunity to get there attention , i am a lot more confident in my own surrounding's so let them see you in your own surroundings when ever you can
such as when you fill comfortable and see a guy near you that you like laugh louder talk louder let them see that your a friendly person if you walk past a guy in a group hold ur head high and keep walking but if you walk past him again when hes alone then give him a sweet smile
2007-11-13 02:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was painfully shy when I was in school and it was hard. I didn't date until my senior year of high school and I dated a guy I had known as a friend for several years.
Guys at that age are not very mature, they tend to pay attention to the girls that bring attention upon themselves.
I know it's hard, but just be friends with people, be happy with yourself. You will have plenty of time to date later in life.
2007-11-13 01:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by Diann C 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
be yourself nothing bits that, a nice boy who will like you for you will give you a chance i am very shy but i get a lot of attention from males. remember its also the way you carry yourself, i prefer being a shy lady than a loud woman getting attention for all the wrong reasons.
2007-11-13 01:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by malindy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, keep being yourself. Having the attention of the boys isn't the most important thing at this point in your life. I know that you want to have guy friends but it's not worth changing who you are. Just be friendly. Smile. The right guy who would appreciate your uniqueness will come along.
2007-11-13 01:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by MzGil 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys just like the outgoing girls but also cant get away from the loud, talkative ones cause they girl dont give them a chance to escape..lol i was the shy girl too, guys do like shy girls too, they just gotta get the courage to approach you. They feel more intimidated by you probably, but doesn't mean they dont like you or want to get to know you more. try talking with them first.
2007-11-13 01:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by louie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the Friend Zone. The place where you think you might be when your female crush starts talking about how hot the guy in her math class is. The place where that guy you're crushing on puts you when he starts belching loudly and scratching himself in front of you, and then pals around with you like you're one of the guys. Want to know if you're in the Friend Zone, or if the guy or girl you like also feels butterflies when you lock eyes? See Step 1 to be on your way to finding out the truth
2016-05-22 22:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reverse it...
why dont the girls go for the shy guys?
other then the louad liviely oens appear fun
Try clothes that point out yes you are in fact a girl whit girl features like boobs.
showing leg helps be it skin tight jeans or minskirts or hotpants.
get more pghysical with guys and jokey and fun.
if you are playing pranks they have to chase you to get you back and you can play wrestle till captured and cant stop them kissing you or you catch them
Tangle twister ice creams can look so like giving a bj and showing off your skills
2007-11-13 03:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shy Girls may come accross as not intrested in you.
2007-11-13 01:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by Fuzzybutt 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋