Been my husband's dependant, cheated on me twice just caught him browsing porno pics and videos on the net while i sleep. probably more...just had a little arguement about disceplining a kid and this is what I heard. There's more bad comments but can't say more details. I'm stung...needing help.
2007-11-13 00:24:48 · 13 answers · asked by Trishia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Run as fast as my feet will take me. This does not feel right, you need to get OUT.....
2007-11-13 00:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by cooter726 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wish i had an answer to that but i had a similar experience, right before we split up my husband said to me "I never thought you would outlast me" Im 63 and hes 52. It was like he was hoping id die, so he could move on without any effort. he acted like he hated me. we were divorced soon after, but i still love him, and sometimes i hate myself for it.I dont know why we women get stuck in these ruts and unable to get out.Sometimes we are just not what they want.
2007-11-13 08:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Fran M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not respect you. You need to stand up for yourself because no one else will. First, you need to find a way to make yourself independent because he's obviously taking advantage of the fact that you depend on him. Once you are able to do that, just pack your bags and walk out of his life FOREVER.
2007-11-13 08:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't heard my spouse say it, but my co-worker said " All I can hope for is that as much as she smokes and drinks, maybe she'll die early" This guy is going thru life miserable because he does not want to share his 401k with her!! I cannot imagine wasting my life that way.
2007-11-13 09:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my partner has cheated once,and if he does it again he is out!! i can deal with my partner looking at free channels you get on sky it gives me a rest!!although i was bothered at first. if you cant beat him join him not at the cheating though!!!if he is verbal bashing you and making you self esteem go down chuck him you are worth more than that, never let a man dictate to you!!!go with how you feel.i found out shouting does not help things but talking does, maybe if you tell him how you feel he might stop,.good luck
2007-11-13 08:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm waiting for my husband to die. The longer I wait, the more I wish I would die.
2007-11-13 08:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Xanadu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a very funny question to me! lol haha Sometimes, I think like that. I know its cruel and mean to think like that for your spouse.
2007-11-13 09:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by pain_of_unhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on you leave him and make it on your own. but porn isnt that big of a deal its not the end of the world. if thats your definition of cheating though then you really need to rethink.
2007-11-13 08:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think so little of yourself. He is treating you like **** and your giving him the two thumbs up, STOP!
2007-11-13 09:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trsih,
dont worry honey.
If you need some female companionship, then i'm here for you.
we both could use some love.
2007-11-13 08:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by infectednipples 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋