im sick of waiting for a baby so im just going to give up since every month i just get disappointed...havent gotten my period yet since its not due til next week but i have a feeling im going to get it...good luck TTC!!!
babydust to all!
2007-11-13 00:16:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
when you try, it doesn 't happen
when you aren't plannig a baby, they come.
Relax. If you are tenase or stressed, then you are less likely to get pregnant.Just have fun, live life, cos if you get pregnant, life will never be the same again !
Also, cut down/quit alcohol and cigs if you have them :)
GOOD LUCK X
2007-11-13 00:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just sad because when you want a baby it is all you can think about, you can't actually listen to this advice and stop worrying, it's so exciting how could you stop thinking about it and trying to figure out when the best time to bd is, when you're ovulating, etc.? But maybe once you stop concerning yourself over it at all you'll magically get pregnant like everyone here says. I don't know. I do think it's psychological. I'm having the same problem. I'm going to go online and look for some meditation ideas, or relaxation techniques, if I find any that work for me I'll let you know. I mean I even quit my job because I was so stressed. The strangest thing is I had a m/c a few months back and the week that I did get pregnant I was having an unusually good week, I felt like I was walking on a cloud... Then my usual stress came back and I m/c'd although of course the doctors tell me that's probably not why it happened. The more I TTC the more I really feel like maybe there is a relationship between your level of stress and whether or not a baby wants to be in that situation, or wants to make you more stressed out. Some guy said that a fetus will die/disappear in order to keep from stressing out the mother even more. In this day and age though we likely already knew we were pregnant and the m/c would have just made everything worse. Anyway all I'm saying is maybe there is some spiritual side to this that we haven't figured out yet. I wish you and I the best. D*mn it all.
2007-11-13 00:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by hmm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say for the people that reply on these boards if your not ttc or having informative information, answeres, or sugesstions please don't reply. It's enough to have to go through the issues of trying to conceive but to have people being rude is not helpful at all. Now to my reply, I'm there with you but you can't give up. we sometimes don't get what we want when we want it but it comes on time if that makes sense. Comtinue to pray, I've been ttc for two months but this is my second marriage and still no children and I've neve been preggers or anything so I really have a hard time with this and sometimes I feel like given up but I just visualize my baby and haope the next time will be my month. I will pray for you and I know you will have your bundle of joy soon.
Baby dust...........
2007-11-13 00:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by tlnay025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is nothing pathological wrong then you are thinking bout it too much. My bf is a GYN. when he has couples come in and there is no reason not to get preg. he tell thems to take a relaxing few days ( at the right time,ovulation) away from it all and it usually works. Good luck.
2007-11-13 00:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by U2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
with out a shout of a doubt, I am too, ttc#1 is to hard, I am turning in the tables
2007-11-13 01:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying. I know of a couple that adopted a baby then two years later conceived. Just keep having lots of sex and it'll happen.
Father of two.
2007-11-13 00:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES! GIVE UP!!! and then it will happen. at 16 i had cancer, was told i would never be a mom. then at 20 i had my left tube removed. i tried, taking my temp, counting days, went and saw a fertility doc. finally i gave up. re-aranged my life. got healthy, lost 20 lbs. then at 29 i became a mom. just give up. stop waitting for your "missed" period. infact stop paying it any mind at all. to the point if you were late, you wouldn't notice for days. your stress will drop if you just stop worrying about it.
2007-11-13 00:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by old bitty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i feel for you, my sister and her husband tried for seven years to fall pregnant, finally last year she had a little boy, my sister said it was done to her not worrying anymore and not putting pressure on herself or her husband, as soon as she put it to the back of the mind and started living her life she fell pregnant, don't give up just try to relax and enjoy your life and it will happen good luck
2007-11-13 00:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by cara 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, as soon as you give up you will get there, you are putting too much pressure on yourself.
Good luck!
xxx
2007-11-13 00:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up! my friend tried for seven yrs and then had a baby girl! i kno its a long tome but was worth it in the end pet
2007-11-13 00:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by xxxjtxxx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋