I had oral sex with a man for the first time in my life,enjoyed it ,really turned me on but now I am feeling guilty,please help!!!
2007-11-13 00:06:28 · 18 answers · asked by Miseltoe 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I don't think you should feel guilty at all.
2007-11-13 00:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by sexy one 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you're probably feeling guilty because while this generation has plenty of sh*t that is totally screwed up, your generation was/is pretty screwed up themselves. Attitudes about homosexuality have obviously changed and are much more accepting with today's younger people. At nearly 70 though, from everything I've heard, it was not nearly as acceptable back then as it is now and someone you looked up to probably frowned on it and implanted negative views in your head. It's hard to say just let it go because those views have been forced upon you for probably the better part of your life. Bottom line, it's up to you to figure out whether you like getting blown by a guy enough to deal with the impending guilt because at that age, it's probably not going to go away anytime soon. If the guilt is too much, um..stick to gay porn I guess..who knows.
2007-11-13 00:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by M.M.12 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you married or in a committed relationship with someone other than the person whom you enjoyed sex with?
If NOT then your conscience should be clear,
Oral sex with either a Woman or Man,
is great,
There is nothing to be scared of, and No reason to real guilty about enjoying sex,
I hope you realize that just because many people can be discriminatory , it doesn't make it right,
I found that older people can sometimes just continue to say and behave badly , just because this is the way its always been done,
But you and I both know that everything changes,
just at diffrent paces,
You have done nothing wrong,
Good luck
Meg
2007-11-13 00:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's normal but remember your guilt is brought on by society and other men that are to shallow to admit that they have thought about doing it too. If you enjoyed it than it's all good and life is to short not to have good. Don't ever feel guilty about good sex with men or women as long as it wasn't hurtful or rape.
2013-11-26 02:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by gary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason to feel guilty. it's your life, darling. If you want to get your rocks off with a man, good for you! If you dont, good for you! No one can judge you, and you shouldn't judge yourself negatively for exploring what your inner voice is telling you. If you enjoy experiences with other men, so be it! We only live once, we might as well make the most of it while we have time to. Be comfortable with who you are. Accept yourself, first and foremost! You're the only person, really, who has to live with YOU every day... so accept yourself and love you for who and what you are. If you're a straight laced Christian church goer... accept yourself as such. Or, if you're an older man who just so happens to explore his sexuality with other men, accept yourself as such! Love yourself for who you and don't ever let other people's ideas, thoughts, values or discriminations overshadow your own.
And to those that critisize: Judge not, lest ye be judged, my friend!
2007-11-13 00:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda Nicole 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 06:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 69 what dose it matter now. Have you not lived your life the way you want. Whats to feel guilty about?
2007-11-13 00:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you were both consenting adults, there's nothing to feel guilty about. You just discovered another dimension of your being. It's never too late to expand one's horizons. Enjoy.
2007-11-13 06:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look mate have fun whilst you can guilty about what did you use too much teeth or did you take them out
2007-11-13 00:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by theanswer read it again please 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but I would be stoked that I can get it up at the age of 69 :)
2007-11-13 00:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Markos K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋