My bf has dyslexia! How should I learn to deal with this issue?

Question

My boyfriend and I often have arguements. He expresses his feelings by tantrums. He'll talk; but when he talks he gets confused, repeats the same thing over and over, and even stop because he gets frustrated. Hours ago I thought it was bi-polar. I just talked to him on the phone and I exlained to him that alot of time you may can't verbalize exactly what you want to say and i told him to write it down. He gets furious and tells me that he hate writiing- i never knew why until now. I LOVE to write and i apologized to have had many arguements to pressure him to write. How should i deal with him seeing that he can't verbalize nor write down what he wants to say or how he feels. Help me, so that i cant try to help him.

Answer 1

Dyslexia is slight disorder of the brain that causes difficulty in reading and spelling, but does not affect intelligence
So it is not a big deal
Tom Cruise has it

Answer 2

This doesn't fit dyslexia as I thought I knew it. It sounds like the kid has anger issues more than anything else. It's not your fault he acts the way he does though. Nor is it your job to change him. Try to trick him into getting help if you know ahead of time that he'd fight you on it. People like this need to get themselves straightened out.

Answer 3

I know friend its difficult..but its ur affection and love for him wich can win ...u have to give him SUPPORT,MENTALLY,PHYSICALLY,EMOTIONALLY.This is the thing u shoulld do..forget about ur own egos,personal wishes.Dyslexic patients need support from others and someone who really loves them and is confident that he becomes alright.nothing else iss needed.Take him to a dyslexic institute and many programs on dyslexic management r there.Make him undergo all that.He will surely come out..

Answer 4

He needs to deal with it and learn how to cope with it.
That is not your fault. You can be supportive of him and try to research on it and help him.