I was talking to a guy the other day, until he started doing this. I told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore because it wasn't cool that he was big, but thought it was ok to make fun of big females, and he got angry!! Then he started to make fun of ME for being fat!! I weigh a whopping 130. At 5'4"! What's wrong with him I wonder? I was thinking he's just mean.
2007-11-12 20:53:47 · 14 answers · asked by Me M 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Respect .........he has none. He should look in a mirror.
2007-11-12 20:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by rainbowmatrixs 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
the explanation why you sense plenty greater stronger is which you think of your "buddy" Betsie is below you. while you're in graduate college, you need to be sufficiently previous to comprehend how this petty nonsense works. yet, in case you have been truly so advantageous, you does no longer choose somebody like Betsie who you take care of worse than a cockroach. you're taking earnings of kindness, take care of her as your servant, and additionally take earnings of her low self-truly worth and self belief. i desire, at some point quickly, she would be in a position to comprehend how suitable and exquisite she is and how being around you isn't reaping benefits her in any respect. those adult men you're with will in basic terms finally end up employing you. in spite of each thing, you utilize all and sundry else. somebody will knock you off this pedestal you have created at the back of an surprisingly good lady who replaced into searching for a buddy and mistakenly thinks you and your others actual like her. i'd be careful. you leave your handbag and your beverages together with her. possibly at some point, she'll have had adequate of the abuse and combat back. till then, push on and enable Betsie pass. i'm particular you and your lot will discover different leisure someplace else.
2016-10-02 06:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by herne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in this world would be a liar if they said they weren't in some way shallow. We all are picky human beings...
But what does it matter to you if someone is fat and makes fun of other fat people.
Shizza, I am fat I think and I make fun of fatter people sometimes, I think the reason why we do this is to take the attention we have on ourselves and put it from us to them so we get out of the spotlight!
Have mercy on us! And if he called you fat! 5'3 to 5'7 130lbs to 165lbs is perfect but if you hold it wrong then yea I could see a crowd of people laughing at you!
LMFAO! Fat guys rule!
2007-11-12 21:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by icpropertysolutions 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He is obviously ignorant. But more than that, he is so caught up in being one of the typical haters that he actually forgot who he really was (or maybe this is his way of dealing with being big).
You're right, he is mean! The really sad part is that although you may hardly know him, you are the closest thing he has to a friend!
Thanx for keeping it real!
2007-11-12 21:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by wendogscreate 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe you told him the wrong way. Next time try to be a little more subtle. Give him some clues as to why he shouldn't make fun of overweight people. *cough cough* tell him he's a little overweight to. tell him to eat a salad and lay off the chocolate.
2007-11-12 21:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Neo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is unethical and very superfecial for someone to make fun at anyone els by judging the way they look like cus all of us were borne in diffrent sizes, colours,and shapes and no one at all can do anything about the way they look or change it.
i bet if it was a persone who would disrespect that guy by saying somthing rude to hime rather than making comments about the way he looks like he would comment on his behaviaoure because he would be very scared to do so dont you think.
2007-11-12 21:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ummm you said he was fatt right??
he might feel the privlage to bagg everyone else out who is fatt because he is .
and he thinks its ok and yeah cause if he was skinny he might think it was mean .
its still not acceptable
being called fat hurts
your story didnt make much sense but i think thats what i got out of it
hope you feel better soon! and he gets nice! xxx
2007-11-12 21:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't think of themselfs as fat, but muscular. They don't see that they are out of shape, because then they would have to do something about it, and it is easier to make fun of someone else than look at yourself. You hurt his ego, and it sounds like it might be as big as him.
2007-11-12 20:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
He's a loser and he knows it, so making fun of other people makes him feel good about himself or validated.But deep down he knows it that he is a looser and more than likely he couldn't get even a big woman if he wanted to.
2007-11-12 20:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Arlene 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
He either doesn't think of himself as fat, Big ego, or he's just not that bright.. He's a hypocrite unless he's also joking about how fat he is himself...
2007-11-12 20:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes was mean no one has the right to make fun of anybody because of weight, appearance, etc we are all different long live the difference
2007-11-12 20:56:14 · answer #11 · answered by bilbobagsend 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋