If God doesnt give us more than we can bear........?

Question

why do so many people commit suicide
and dont say they are all crazy or sick,because many perfectly normal people have commited suicide simply because they ''had more than they could bear''??!!!

therefore...that statement is false,isnt it?

lightwor...do you even know what ritalin is???could you please be more ignorant
darling??

Answer 1

many perfectly normal people have committed suicide simply

no faith of god

In the name of Allah, the Compassionate, the Merciful.

The Unbelievers say: "Why is not a sign sent down to him
from his Lord?" Say: "Truly Allah leaveth, to stray, whom He will; But He guideth to Himself those who turn to Him in penitence,-
"Those who believe, and whose hearts find satisfaction in the remembrance of Allah. for without doubt in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction.
"For those who believe and work righteousness, is (every) blessedness, and a beautiful place of (final) return."

Answer 2

The whole thing of "God not giving us more than we can bear" isn't exactly truthful or a part of scripture. That comes from a mistranslated form of 1 Corinthians 10:13. That verse says that God will not allow a temptation more than what we can bare. Meaning, we have NO excuse to say, "Well, I just cannot resist that. It's too much." The Bible doesn't say, "God won't give you more than you can bear". In fact, God says the opposite. There are many verses about suffering and hardship that God's people go through. Even Elijah sat under a tree and waited to die at one point in his life. Life is hard sometimes. God told us that it would be. Many of his believers went through things over and over. Also, you have to understand what "God's will" really is. Just because something happens in your life, it doesnt' mean that God MADE it happen. There have been some awful things happen to me, but I know that God didn't make it happen. Also, sometimes, we bring things upon ourselves by refusing to follow God or taking on too much of stuff that was NEVER meant to be in our lives (jobs, relationships, and so on). God never said he was only going to give you so much to deal with. However, God did promise you one thing -- he will never leave you or let you go about life on your own. He is always there. It is our job to turn to him and allow him to help us get through the hard stuff. A suicide is someone's cry of frustration and desperation. It is someone that believes there is no other answer other than death. It isn't a result of God putting too much onto us. It is a result of someone's own mental state being so beaten down by life that they cannot see another way out.

Answer 3

"لاَ يُكَلِّفُ اللّهُ نَفْسًا إِلاَّ وُسْعَهَا لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتْ وَعَلَيْهَا مَا اكْتَسَبَتْ"

"Allah doesn't burden any soul with more than it can bear. Each soul receives the reward for the good it has earned and is punished for the evil it has done" 2:286 Quran ul Kareem

It is true. The people who committed suicide are those who lack of faith. Those who have never realized that many other have worse life than them. And that other people are suffering more than them. There is no such thing as they had more than they could bear.

haha. give me an example of a situation where one had more than they could bear.

Its like an examination, the teacher said i would only test you on the topics i have gone thru with you this semester. But still, is it that suprising to find out that some of the students still fail the test? Even an "A" student can fail a test.

I hope you understand.

Answer 4

I don't believe that suicide is the result of people being given more than they can bear; it is the result of people not being willing to bear what they have been given. Many suicides are committed by individuals who seemingly have everything going for them; successful in business and personal relationships and seem to be secure within themselves, but still a wart on the nose will send a beautiful high school cheerleader to an untimely grave because she believed herself to be disfigured or a varsity football player who has been cut from the team because of failing grades will give up on life because he can't get past that goal line. Are these things God's fault? We are given trials and tribulations to strengthen us and to build character and there are the majority who overcome obstacles that are overwhelming to me. This I do know: in all of the trials that I have had to face in my life I can chronicle their passing as the poem "Footprints in the sand".

Answer 5

god states that there is nothing in the world that he will put on you that is more than you will ever be able to bear. the way i feel about it is, god puts pressure on you to see if you will put your faith in him to help you get through whatever troubles you are going through and feel as though you can't handle. people that commit suicide i'm sure have many troubles in there lives, but if any person that is wanting to commit suicide but unsure of how or why or is still questioning themselves, they should wait until the next day to see if the troubles in their life has gotten any better. things don't get better overnight but there is always some kind of relief within reaching distance and if you give it a chance to get within seeing distance you will find that suicide is not the answer.

Answer 6

Completely normal people do not commit suicide.

Don't judge a book by it's cover because obvious the person is not having normal or healthy thoughts to opt out of living.

Also, God does not give us more than we can bear and the person has no faith or hope in God so suicide and faith have nothing to do with each other. People without faith may blame God, may not trust God etc... but the two do not go hand in hand for this is not referring to a true believer.

Answer 7

God does not make people commit suicide ,people commit suicide by their own choice,as he also gave us free will.And usually when someone is suicidal they are very ill and not in a normal state of consciousness.perfectly normal people do not commit suicide darling that is why they invented Ritalin.

Answer 8

God doesn't give you more than you can bear. People who commit suicide are NOT perfectly normal. They have convoluted thinking and use a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
When people are weak, God is strong but if they fail to lean on God's strength, they fail to accept the strength they need to bear what they're going through. It's not God who failed them; it's their failure that they didn't take the help given them.

Answer 9

I think something has gone wrong. Because if you think about it, if we weren't given more than we could bear, people wouldn't go crazy, now would they? See, what it actually says is that we won't be tempted beyond what we can endure. The whole more than you can bear thing is a misunderstanding. Sometimes, things are unfair. I don't really get it.

Answer 10

Some people arent fit enough to deal with what has been handed to them. Everything that happens is overcomeable. Some people just cant take it. Its not Gods fault.

IM not a catholic or anythin but some people just dont have the guts or the heart to make it through some tough situations. its almost sad