my wife and i just finished saying goodbye to a mutual acquaintance. i turned around to pick up my bag and when i turned back the other way i saw him throw my wife a kiss( after already kissing her goodbye) i caught it with the corner of my eye. my wife says it was weird but not to read to much into it cause that is cultural for mexican people.
2007-11-12 17:05:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I am going to assume you were just in a social situation with these people. Maybe he is just a nice guy and had a great evening with the two of you. I know my friends blow a kiss to my hubby after a fun evening together and I wouldn't think twice about it. If your wife didn't think it was odd then forget about it. As for it being cultural not so sure about that excuse. If it makes you feel better, ask the friend in a non-confrontational way. :)
2007-11-12 17:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough detail about the situation. It's true that Mexican people are much more kissy than American people. If it were, for example, a 70-year-old man blowing a kiss to your 30-year-old wife, I wouldn't have a problem. If they are closer in age it's not so clear. Personally I don't think you should worry about it too much. After all, don't you trust your wife?
2007-11-13 03:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Mexicans it is normal to kiss frequently and show emotions in this way. Even when they meet a new person they kiss and hug. If this is the case, then that's alright, but if you feel suspicious of your wife this is normal. If there is any reason for your wife to be cheating on you (sorry) then I guess it may be possible.
I hope everything goes okay xx
2007-11-13 02:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello don't know very much about Mexican cultural but in American cultural it just might be called flirting If an extra kiss is going to be thrown to my husband then wait until i am front and center and we will both catch that kiss.
2007-11-13 01:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it at first, but watch them carefully... out of the corner of your eye. It's OK to be suspicious but, don't let it go overboard.
2007-11-13 06:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Brewspy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your wife listen to her and if you wana confront him about it go ahead. It would be fine with me but if you find it inapropriate just say it next time you see him.
2007-11-13 01:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife? It's cultural if they kissed her on each cheek but not as you described it
2007-11-13 01:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Pathofreason.com 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is deceptive and it arouses my suspicions of the person. Puts me on alert in regard to the person.
2007-11-13 04:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch your wife
2007-11-13 01:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by jammal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not cool dog, Id kick his ***
2007-11-13 01:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by billepplerkfc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋