Family Problems. My little sister living with me.?

Question

Ok , my 25 yr old sister is living with me. She has a 2 yr old.
My sister is working in a strip club. She wants to leave here everyday by 2 or 3 pm... and she doesnt come home until 2 or 3 am....
She does get up in the morning and help around the house a little. but, that is it.
She doesnt help with bills.. and I am stuck here with her 2 year old almost all the time.
I have already said something to her once... what should I do?

PLEASE HELP WITH ADVICE!!!

xxxooo
Stace

I want to take back the :STUCK HERE WITH HER 2 YEAR OLD:
I love him and would do anything for him.. I just feel taken advantage of.. This is no way his fault. He is an angel . I re-read my question and wanted to recant that sentence...

xxxoo
Stace

Answer 1

kick her out, and go to court for custody of her kid. i know its harsh, but she has to learn to grow up sometime. my best friend's wife is 30 yrs old and doesnt have custody of her two girls, because shes a loser. sounds like ur sister is headed in that direction. i know your niece/nephew isn't really ur responsibility, but sounds like the kid is much more better off with u than her anyways, and u gotta look out for the kid. shes too young to be a mommy. she needs to grow up.

Answer 2

Well I wouldn't expect ANYBODY who puts in a 12hr day and works until 2 or 3 am to get up in the morning just to help around the house at all let alone "a little".

The thing to remember here is who's house this is.
If it's your house, then you have a choice of who lives there.
If your sisters lifestyle, or career doesn't mix with your life, then she needs to find another place to live.

PERIOD!

Answer 3

If she is a good stripper she is making between 200 and 1000 dollars a night. If she is waiting tables she should be making at least 300 per. Tell her to hire a sitter.....her kid is not your responsibility nor is it to provide free room and board. Hand her the phone bill, electric, gas etc....tell that she has to pay half the monthly bills plus half the groceries.If she doesn't pony up the cash...its time to kick her out.

Answer 4

WOW, no wonde you fel so bad most of the time!! Set down some strict boundries for your sister, and actions,responsibilities! And let her know, that its "not negotibable". My way/or he hiway", but keep the baby! She's blessed to have an aunt like you in her life!! Tell her you want 1.) rent weekly, 2.)groceires $$ weekly, and she'll do her own laundry!! I commend you for taking such good care of your niece! God will bless your family for this, Your husband must have agood heart also!! Best of luck to ya both, lett me know how it goes!!! MGB

Answer 5

Hi Friend!

ARe you working and is this distrubing your career or personal life?
If So tell her straightly... and you can ask some part of bills

If not ..i mean your pain due to this is very less..consider...
1.She is your Sister
2.Two years old kid

enjoy the child hood by helping sisters career and share bills

Arien

Answer 6

I hate to hear you say you are "stuck here with her 2 year old" most of the time. It makes me feel like the little one is not very wanted by either of you. Please, whatever you do, take care of that little one. If either of you do not want to be "stuck" please find someone who wants to be there with that baby. I am sure there are many people out there who would give their right arm to have that little one around most of the time.

Answer 7

first of all she dont belong in a place like that where she.s a mother and . let her know what you say that you mean every word said to her. oh. by the way try and get her out from places like that very bad on her where she.s a woman my honest opion?

Answer 8

She needs to find a more respectable job , she has a child and that just isn't the kind of job a mother should have.
I would be telling her that you arenot her childs sitter and that she needs to find other arrangements for him

Answer 9

Tell her how it's gonna be or she's out the door....it's your house...you are doing her a favor. good luck!