I walked up to a club to meet my friends as it was closing and they had met this guy named Edward. He was cute, but not my type...1 of those guys who's too hot, that I probably don't have a chance with. I figured he was just hanging with my friends because he liked all the attention they were giving him. When I walked up and he was hugging one of them, and he raised is eyebrows and looked at me (my friend of course couldn't see this). I decided just to keep my distance, I'm not going to fall for someone who just likes to be a tease. He walked up to me and asked my name, then started flirting with me...and I tried not to show interest. We started talking a bit and found out we have the same major, the more we talked the more I liked HIM, not because he's hot but because of who he is...all night long he kept on giving me these lustful looks, but I couldn't say anything to him because my friend was there...by the end of the night I decided to not ask for his number, did I do right?
2007-11-12 16:14:12 · 3 answers · asked by confused student 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I didn't want to offend my friend but Edward was so much more interested in me than my friend...at the end of the night he was sitting on my lap in the back of my friend's car, I don't know if he was just drunk or what, but as I was leaving he gave me this look as to say why didn't you get my number? (which I wasn't going to ask for in front of my friend)..it was this puppy eyes look...
2007-11-12 16:21:00 · update #1
So a week later I saw him at a party, and decided that I should give him my number...that way I could be sure he really likes me and not the attention he gets...a little bit afterwards my friend walked over and pulled Edward aside and said something, Edward gave me a strange look, and I thought my friend was telling him bad things about me...I didn't know for sure, and afterwards I felt uncomfortable around him during the rest of the night...I figured I'd never see him again...then today he texted me, and we ended up hanging out a bit...he told me he isn't interested in my friend at all...we made plans to hangout tomorrow (Chilli's)...so the question is...is this the beginning of a friendship or a relationship? do I hangout with him behind my friend's back or do I tell him...?
2007-11-14 18:30:57 · update #2
No, if he is Ur friends friend.. then u could lose ur friend..
there could be a big mess up over it,, and hard feelings between all the friends involved..
if u have his blessing then,, go for it!!!!!
2007-11-12 17:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha! No! You let him get away! It's kind of an awkward situation but if you think he's hot physically and mentally then he may be the guy for you (as long as he feels the same way about you)!
2007-11-13 00:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Sexi Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clear it with your friend first.
2007-11-13 19:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋