I really have come to despise a lot of Christians over my life. Many who have never been in my shoes or of those similar to me. Simply saying "it is a choice" and that "God will change you" and "just pray about it" offend me now. After living in this world for 35 years and being bisexual for 24 of these years with 15 of them as a born again Christian I do not believe it is a choice, God has NOT changed me or many others that I know and prayer has been useless on this.
Christians are you so naive that you cannot comprehend that same sex relationships is just as real as opposite sex? I know scriptures just as well as you. What is up with all the hate and arrogance?
Jesus was sent to die because God love the WHOLE world. Not just you. He loves EVERYONE. What is up with the harshness towards homosexuality when child abuse isn't deal with so harshlessly, I don't see the same harshness with drug and alcohol abuse, I don't see the same with smoking, or many other sins?
2007-11-12 16:02:19 · 11 answers · asked by Tommy Thompson 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Linda J - How can you really say it is a choice. Have you been there. Have you been in the shoes I'm in. Can you honestly say that an 11 year old can just decided "oh, I'm going to be gay." Come on. I've found sexual pleasure in women because I wanted a family. I'm really not aroused by very many women. It is the personality of the woman that attracts me more than anything. It hasn't been a choice.
2007-11-12 16:26:14 · update #1
Scottgirl60 - Thank you and yes I will forgive them. It still hurts, but I will forgive. Thank you for asking me to do this.
2007-11-12 16:28:29 · update #2
Those outside the Body of Christ that practice sexual lifestyles contrary to basic Scriptural teachings is for God to Judge in His own season. Back before we had global overpopulation and the order of the day from the Creator was to Multiply , its been difficult to do so until this age [without convention sexual reproduction]. But with new female eggs banks and male sperm banks its now possible to have a child and not be heterosexual. Divine wisdom is needed here, not legalistic dogmatism. Any serious servant of Christ that believes Christ is Gay Basher, personally I would wonder if They understand the Love of Christ at all. Everyone can know in their heart what Jesus Christ thinks of any situation, ask Him in prayer and do not let Religious Radicals cause any to lose faith in The Good Shepperd Above. I think the Only Miracle God ever wanted humanity to do for Him is for all to just get along and love each other in a real heartfelt way as a truly loving family should.
2007-11-12 19:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by FORTY55_ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian and I know God loves everyone, so, for the benefit of that guy up there, I don't think it's Christians who have a problem with loving everyone, but maybe people like him.
2016-05-22 22:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thought Europe, America and some other countries. Christains have always had problems with difference.
I'm not Bi or Gay. But I'm Pagan. And I too have felt the wrath from Christains.
The best advise, it's not much and I still have problems with it. Bite your tongue. Let them go off on their spill. When all is done. Slam the door and cruse away.
Believe me it helps!
2007-11-12 17:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you WANT to do something doesn't give you the right to commit it. It's called resisting temptation.
I don't hate you, and I don't feel sorry for you.
You made your choice but I think you made the wrong one.
However in God's eyes a sin is a sin. Homosexually is no worse, (or less)a sin than any other.
I strongly suggest that you take the time to really seek God for yourself. Don't take my word or anyone else for that matter.
Only you can accept Christ as your Savior, and only then will you be saved.
2007-11-12 16:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Linda J 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I'm a Christian, and I'm not hateful towards them, not even loving. I'm neutral to EVERYBODY. I can't love everybody, ahem...sorry Jesus.
You have to think twice about Muslims, because they execute homosexuals (in Iran and Saudi Arabia). The extremist Christians just complain and verbally attack them.
2007-11-12 16:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Jesus does love everyone.
Please forgive us (Christians) for not unconditionally loving you the way Jesus taught us to...
2007-11-12 16:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
God loves us all equally. But, He does not approve of sin, no matter what sin it is. To INTENTIONALLY CONTINUE to commit the same sin over and over is to scoff at God.
2007-11-12 16:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by Faye 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They're just using the bible as a front. Half the **** they quote was either translated wrong or added in during the dark ages. Let the less evolved children have their fun. :*
2007-11-12 16:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by maritza_manga 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
You mean some Christians .not all
I'm Christian and I don't have any problem with Homosexuality.
2007-11-12 16:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
hey hey hey. don't group all of us together. those that condem you are the self rightous and those who fear the unknown. not all of us think that way.
2007-11-12 16:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋