barely any girls/ladies/women can orgasm from just intercourse and WHY don't guys know that????!!!????
i wish there was something i could do to make everyone know. i think a lot of girls don't tell their boyfriends because they don't want them to know in fear that it might upset them or hurt them.
or they've been faking it and don't know how to stop.
why don't guys know???
2007-11-12 15:59:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. i'm not saying i have problems and i'm not asking for advice to orgasm. i know my body and i'm open with my boyfriend.
the reason why i used the words "plain sex" is because i'm come to realize that a lot of people are *ucking stupid and i wanted to make sure they knew what i meant even if they don't know what intercourse means.
i want everyone's opinion and thoughts.
2007-11-12 16:09:51 · update #1
haha, most guys know. although they just dont think about it at the time because they are too busy... and girls dont really mention it to the guys because they are worried it will make them sad due to feeling in-adequate which can be quite true if they dont say it properly... haha
2007-11-12 16:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by King_Dano 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An ancient male explains.
There's 3 broad categories of guys.
A lot of guys are simply not sophisticated enough to understand the concept of foreplay and afterplay. For them foreplay means a couple of kisses, a grab at the breasts if the woman is lucky and then it's down to intercourse followed by either a roll-over and sleep or heading out for a beer or to watch TV etc. A lot of the guys in this group watch porn and believe it's how they should act.
The second group really don't care what the woman feels or gets out of sex as long as they get their rocks off that's all that matters. Another form of male moron. Lots of porn watchers in this group too.
The final group are those who either get a kick out of seeing their lover enjoy themselves or who are interested in seeing their lover have a good time too. Such males generally have started with communicative partners and don't have hangups, foibles or other issues with both partners discussing what they like and don't dislike.. This group of males tend to watch little or no porn as they recognse porn as being unrepresentative of reality. (and they aren't christians either).
2007-11-13 00:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ian W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the girl doesnt say what exactly she wants, the guy is not going to change routine. Why do something new, if there arent any complaints He knows the girl isnt getting off, but if she is not making any moves, I guess he assumes, its alright.
2007-11-13 00:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by JG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't just intercourse. However, you have just as much as ability DURING intercourse to get off as he does. Maybe try a position where your clitoris is stimulated.
Guys don't know because girls like you don't tell them. If you're having sex, you should be comfortable enough with your partner to tell them how YOU personally are able to get off.
2007-11-13 00:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Literate Fruit 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
because they are more interested in pleasing themselves than their partner --- it can take many years (sometimes never) or it can be very quick --- and yes let the guy know what pleases you we generally do want to know and if we dont we assume all is ok --- never fake it thats crazy if the guy does not care enough to listen then he is not worth being with ---- have fun
2007-11-13 00:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well some of us know!! Foreplay is the answer and before that romancing and seduction! It takes more that sex to make love!!
2007-11-13 00:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by 1919 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i'm on top I can because of his pubic bone stimulating places that love being stimulated.
2007-11-13 00:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Blue & Riley too. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cuz they will never truly understand woman
2007-11-13 00:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by over the rainbow girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they know, they just don't care.
2007-11-13 00:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Calista 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please read: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/445051/do_women_have_as_strong_of_sex_drives.html
2007-11-15 03:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋