she asked me to study twice. i see her in class and we both speak and smile. i can remeber once i walked passed her and she speaks and smile and i speak and smile back . i looked back and i notice she was shaking her head and mumbling. im really confuse. i feel like im in tough situation. i want to get food with her on campus. since she was so nice and asking me to study(i felt honored and didn't expect it). i really like her and i don't know what to do. every time she talks to me she always ask bout my classes. she is really sweet. i don't how to handle this situation. i don't want to mess. what should i do. last week her bestfriend came over and sat with me at dinner on campus. i wanted to ask about the girl but i wasn't sure of it. i really like this girl and want to ask her out for campus the problem is that im too shy and worried about losing our great bond and chemistry. what should i do
2007-11-12 15:55:31 · 9 answers · asked by mikerob08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we always have good converstions whether passing bye or the few times we have sat and talked. her ask me study makes it the third times she has aksed me to do something. the first time came last year when she wanted me to meet her friend. i feel like i should do something. at least get food and talk as friends
2007-11-12 16:19:28 · update #1
we really compliment each other and have some things in common. it is remarkable because last year i came wanting to date another girl. when she was taken i was crushed. so i decide just forget dating. i happen to be in the right place with my friend when i met her and her best friend. funny, i though about no going to get food with him. but now i glad he convince me. she is wonderful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-12 16:22:09 · update #2
i think she likes u as a friend and a good classmate to help her out on her studies..
after all she is only been talking about classes and studies..
if u really want to find out, try asking her closest friend on what are the chances for u going out with her juz out of curiosity...
am sure if the gurlz likes u too, her best friend would'nt mined helping u out..
2007-11-12 16:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by kachu_ina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I'm going out on a limb right now but sounds like you should just be yourself. However stay focused on keeping a "friendship" relationship with this girl until you are sure of what she wants. Besides any relationship that starts out as friends is the best before or after dating that person. -don't be in a hurry dude it might mess you up -but do work on being friendly.
2007-11-13 00:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop being shy and ask her if she likes you the same way you like her. You could try and write her a note i know that may sound so middle school but it always works for me. I was shy about these things to so i would usually wrote a not to them. You should ask her.
2007-11-13 00:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by HotStuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Girls don't give much more obvious signs than the ones this one is. She keeps talking about classes because that's all she knows you have in common at the moment. Get to know her better and I"m sure the topics will expand.
2007-11-12 23:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to study, study for awhile and ask if she would like to order pizza, when it is all said and done ask if she'd like to go play pool. It doesn't even have to be supper time 8 or nine order pizza and about 10:00 go play pool (this night would be an excellent way for her to get to know you)
2007-11-12 23:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out! if she says no then you can just be friends. if you wait then you might lose her to another guy and then you will never know. see if she wants to go out to a movie or dinner or something. be a man, what have you got to lose? almost all girls will stay friends with a guy if he asks her out, sometimes they are a bit shocked, although its almost like a compliment to them.
2007-11-13 00:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by King_Dano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what the funnest time of her life was. I read that in a book and it really works. If your in need of other questions like that try asking what the saddest time of her life was. Do it inconspicuos girls don't like being tricked.
2007-11-13 00:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by blackcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live my whole life being shy. You get no where, trust me. Just be yourself and ask her to do something you enjoy doing. Even if its just coffee, skating, movie, anything. Just remember, she might be interested in you, buut may be just as shy.
2007-11-13 00:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by cupcake0721 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get over your shyness!
2007-11-12 23:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋